What do i buy him?

[angel-cake]

I am still good friends with my ex. He has bought me a christmas present and i want to buy him something but it needs to be something that wont 'offend' his current girlfriend.

He doesnt want her to know ive bought him something.

What can i buy that is not suspicious looking, but also not boring?

PS. There is nothing going on between us at all, but his new girlfriend is a bit of a jealous person, hence the need to be discreet.

[RATTER15]

Don't buy him anything, your relationship is over, he has moved on, him being secretive is just going to cause problems in his new relationship.

Do him and his relationship a favour and just move on, you don't want to be the cause of them braking up, do you?

[Carakeel]

To be honest angel-cake, I don't think you two should be buying each other presents in the first place, even if you are still friends. And as far as he is concerned - he shouldn't be starting his new relationship by hiding things from his new girlfriend, especially not things that involve his ex! How would you feel if you were in her shoes? Think about it and be honest with yourself. Ex girlfriends and boyfriends can cause a lot of trouble if they hang around and have secrets behind the new partners' backs. Is that what you want for him?

[Carakeel]

Oh RATTER, didn't realise you were posting at the same time. Hiya Love XXX. Glad you're of the same opinion. That so nice. :o)

[oldwoman]

I would go so far as to tell him you don`t want his present.

[B00]

Unless it's something you really want angel-cake then just smile sweetly and state you didnt buy him owt as you didn't want to cause trouble......then leggit, clutching your prezzy :-)

[angel-cake]

well thanks for the answers, though no one really answered the question i asked!!

[ummmm]

Ok...buy him a cd then he can pretend he had it all along!