is this a bad thing??

[dejucrazy55]

is it bad to want something so bad you are willing to do anything to get it??.....im meaning a person.....i mean i'd do anything to have them but how to get them i have no clue..but a small part of me believes that they kinda want me too but they arent 100% sure yet.....i dont want to sit here and wait around but if i have to should i??

[crete]

dej,,, no disrespect but give more info to receive a response

[Ctrak]

I have so often been there. I think I might be there now. But Facebook has to ******* well be under maintenance, doesn't it? ********.

But yes, exercise sanity is the best advice anyone can give you, take it easy. My answer is yes. Sit around and wait- if you want them that bad you would be surprised how long you can sit and wait for.

[WaldoMcFroog]

Normally, we Earth people find that asking someone out is quite a good way of finding out whether a person likes you.

If they say 'yes', they do. If they say 'no', you have to shrug your shoulders and move on.

Have you thought of trying our crazy Earth ways at all?

[BBWCHATT]

Deju - I don't have any idea how old you are - that might be of some help in answering you properly. If you are extremely young - you probably won't remember their name this time next year. If you are a mature person, perhaps you are willing to pay a bit too much and it would be important to find out why. Is there someone available that you could discuss it with in person?

[Ctrak]

Waldo- yes, I've heard of it. I've also heard of "getting to know someone".

[ummmm]

Ctrak....I think I know who you are!!!

[ummmm]

Yes I know you, on AB that is....I'm right aren't I? I won't say who you use to be though!

[Ctrak]

You're probably right, but I have no evidence. Your suspicions will probably be confirmed if I mention Facebook girl...and Facebook's now up and running again. Yay.

[ummmm]

Does that mean that you are gonna abandon us again?

[Ctrak]

For Facebook girl? I'd kill for Facebook girl....wait, no- maybe not kill, not considering what's going on. Heavily maim perhaps.

Anyway, I don't think another name change is likely as Ctrak is my "proper" forum name- NH being something rather outdated and only used for AB. Think of it as "rebranding". Hey, everyone hated Cif at first, and objected to Snickers...now I eat and drink them all the time.

[ummmm]

I have no issue with you changing your name....I think it took me 2 minutes to figure out who you were once I knew you had a name change. Actually, once I read your answer in the smoking thread I knew it was you!

What is face book?

[Ctrak]

I thought you said you were 20?

That said, I think you've also said you have 3 kids...which is impossible at 20 unless you go at it like a rabbit....

http://www.facebook.com/

[ummmm]

20....I wish

33 I am...an old fogey compared to you!!!

[Ctrak]

Nah...young enough to be sexy, old enough to be experienced.

This is apparently a family site, so I won't furnish this post with the correct terminology.

[ummmm]

Like what????

[Ctrak]

Ahem...back to the question...

It seems to have been answered now, and to summarise:

Don't rush into things.
Relax.
Enquire for clues subtly during conversation.
When 100% sure, ask person out.