Pole dancing lessons are very popular these days and there are some on London.
I went to Milan earlier this year for a mate's hen do and had a great time although it's not really the done thing for girls to go out together in that way over there though and many of the bars are male orientated but there are some good clubs. You get lots of attention from the gorgeous italian men though :) We had a day trip to Lake Como as well which is one of the most gorgeous places I've ever been.