men I need your wisdom?

[stormcat]

Why do married men stray?

[naz_nomad]

because they are unhappy at home

[notfrom-fiji]

i think it's because they are selfish,they only think about them selves,their feeling's i don't think they fully grow out of "I'm a child and can have what i want" mind state ,to them they have no consequences. it's just them.

[notfrom-fiji]

and if it was because its because they are unhappy at home why not just leave the relationship?
then start a new one?

it's because they're so insecure about actually being alone
that they would have a collection of women to choose from.

so where one may fault another may not,it's pathetic.

[DottyH]

because they are no longer single, if they were single they wouldn't be straying.

[notfrom-fiji]

maybe the lack of sex is because men can't be botherd to make their partner feel wanted/sexy/attractive anymore,
and instead of working at fixing it they go else where , and then give all the thing there first partner needs to there new bit on the side!

[sleepyj]

not just the men the wifes are just as bad . just the world we live in now nothing last for ever . shame

[notfrom-fiji]

it's true there is no commitment anymore sex is so available everywhere,
the lack of self respect and respect for others has been diminished, that's why sti's and std's have all risen.
If someone is sleeping with there wife/husband there also unwittingly sleeping with whoever that person is also sleeping with and on and on.

Family values have ceased and so has loyalty

[sleepyj]

most people just want want want not happy with what they have got .

[noxlumos]

Women are quite as bad as men in that regard, it's not all one sided. Men are not automatically the baddies of every scenario, there are some pretty strange women out there as well.

[ummmm]

Yes I agree nox.....who are these men straying with?

[raysparx1]

I will answer as truthfully as I can,sometimes "contentment" isn't enough some men and women seek a little bit more excitement,can I still pull a woman,have I still got it, and some married women are flattered by a bit of attention from a man they don't know, a little bit of excitement bought into a somewhat dull lifesome men feel a little pushed out when children come along, and some women feel unsexy once they have had children, it shouldn't happen but it does,the grass may look a bit greener,it very seldom is, and I am not speaking from what I have done but some of my mates have,sad but true.

[Agent_Smith]

my tenpence worth!!

perhaps, and i dont mean me, but perhaps a man dislikes/fallen out of love /no longer looks in that way with his wife, but because "the system" is always led to believe that women have custody of kids he is to frightened to leave his wife as he loves his kids to much and wants to spend everyday with them and have a huge input in their growth...................if he left her he would only be a weekend parent!!

[curlylfim]

funny because as a married man, who never hides the fact, some women, never seem to be bothered the fact, and some the opposite

[RATTER15]

I agree with Nox, Women are as bad as men, I know for a fact my first wife had a few affairs and I have strong suspicions about my second wife.
I have never been unfaithful to my wives, and never would be!!

[unruliejulie]

I think both sexes are equally as bad as each other as far as having affairs go but i do tend to think that more women than men will leave the marriage as a result of an affair and i think that could well be for the reason that agent smith has stated. It is a lot easier for a woman than a man because she generally gets to keep the kids. That is the hardest thing of all for men.