concern for fellow members

[noxlumos]

As this is a body and soul topic I thought I might like to ask how many of you feel a deep worry for a sick fellow member, like Jenna for instance, and how many of you don't and report questions posted out of concern?

[ummmm1]

Yes noxy....I have been wondering where she is. So what saddo reported the question?

[snagged]

you got reported?... that really seems a bit miserable to me...

[Athley]

I wondered where Jenna was, sorry I don't know the details of what happened. People reporting questions for the sake of it are a flipping pain in the bum. (had to edit that cos we've all be threatened !!)

Hope you're OK Jenna.

xx

:o)

[raysparx1]

Hi nox, I was just going onto your post and it went, some real sad people about, hope Jenna is ok, I will mail her now.

[noxlumos]

yeah what a bummer that is. Show some thought or consideration for a fellow human being and zap your question is banned.However show some delight at the deaths of some young graffitti artists and your question stands.
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/News/Current-Af fairs/Question349108.html
Great editorial policy.

[crete]

nox what makes you think jenna is a sick fellow aber. or have i missed something lately. could she maybe be working ?

[noxlumos]

She's awaiting the results of some tests ergarding possible breast cancer and hasn't been very well at all recently Crete.

[-Zorro-]

Ive looking for the Q ......cant believe someone reported it....I even checked my profile to see if it had been moved by the Ed

[ummmm1]

Crete....she is waiting for the results from a lump in the breast. They were suppose to be here last week

[snagged]

nox, the answers to that Q you linked to are unbelievable!...

[Octavius]

I suspect the new headmistress has sidelined this sort of thing along with the wearisome �where�s whiffey� and �I love wardy� threads that appear randomly and all too frequently in B&S.

It may not have been reported. It may have been that this is primarily a general knowledge Q&A website, not a personal messenger, so the AB Ed has deemed that your question contravenes the rules. Perhaps if you had posted in AB Suggestions, or People & Places the Q might have remained. Who knows.

[ummmm1]

but hey snagged.......that's news....so it's ok????

[-Zorro-]

It was a Q...thats all it needs to be

[snagged]

mmm ummmm1... double standards methinks...

[naz_nomad]

woah ..what'd I miss?

another random removal?

[crete]

no disrespect but hetr postings were becoming like a dear diary section, seldom a question more an update on her life, if she has a problem i hope she gets the right advice.

[ummmm1]

methinks too.......not really fair....it is a question after all

[enigma]

Do you know Noxlumos , I was just wondering where your question disappeared to. I was about to post an answer saying that I had wondered where she had got to as normally she posts a lot but the question had vanished. I have noticed this happening a few times today and thought that I was going mad. I know that WM is renowned for on occasion posting distateful posts but he posted a rather innocuous question today about what clothes were in vogue because he needs a makeover and felt very self consious about his current clothes. Needless to say , this thread was soon deleted and I thought that perhaps it had been moved to shopping as it was to do with clothing but no , it has disappeared from my questions answered. It makes me think that it is one of two possibilities :

1: Selective editing from over zealous ABers who either do not like the question or indeed the questioner.

2:The new Ab Ed has construed it as pointless chat and deleted it.

It's a sad state of affairs though when you can not post a question enquiring about the welfare of a fellow Aber and how their health is , given the blurb about AB being a 'community site'. It seems that certain members are made to be ostracised from their community then !!!

[noxlumos]

Well maybe so Crete, but she has as much right to post here as anyone else as have I enquiring as to her health, as this is body and soul and that was a question.

[crete]

nox, i take your point, but most of her contribution was about herself, rarely a question, we had days of what she ate ! if she has a genuine problem is A B the best place for PROFESSIONAL advice ?