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Silversky | 00:40 Tue 06th Feb 2007 | Body & Soul
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Well, I've met the most amazing guy... and we've been together for about 2 months, and we've had alot of problems in our past, so at the moment we really need each other... and Im completely in love with him.
But I'm only 16 and very shortly I'll be having exams and whatnot, and its very stressful to keep up with both (since he's not at my school or anything)
How can I juggle both, and whats the best way to talk to him about it?
TIA
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Silversky, you are only sixteen and so you do not need to worry about juggling Bfs and exams quite yet. Carry on seeing him and slow it down a bit. You have fallen for him already and if it is mutual then he will realise that you have exams to concentrate on. If he doesnt work or go to school then he can always help you study sometimes if you tell him that you want to do well

i would be honest with him and say you like him but need to make time to study for your exams. You dont wanna cut back from seeing him but have to make studying a priority for a couple of months. Then say he can help you if he can.

You do need to slow it down abit tho' as its quite heavy going for a sixteen yr old
Hello silver,
Good to see your name again, and great that things sound as if they are going well for you, as Shannon says, just tell him that you really want to do well in your exams,if he can't help you at least cut down on the amount of times you see other during the week, see each other say on a wednesday and the weekends, and do your studying on the other evenings, I can understand you want to be with each other as much as possible, but it will be worth the sacrifice,if you can get the good results you want, hope this makes a bit of sense, good luck, and stay in touch with us on here let us know you are ok, after all what has happened, Ray xx
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Hi everyone =]

Hi shannon07, I don't think I remember you when I was here last. It's kinda hard to explain, but I've had alot of problems in the past... and it sounds irrevant... But it would be the reason why its quite serious... Can't really explain...
But none-the-less, your advice was great... I talked to him about it... and he feels it would be best if he backs off for a while, and give me some time to revise and what have you.

And the same to you Raysparx (and my adoptive daddy =]) And I will try and get on here more...
Thanks =]

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