relationships and sex

[legend758duo]

is there more to a relationship than just sex?
does a bad relationship continue longer because of good sex?
or does good sex improve an already good relationship?

[redcrx]

a wise man once said to me
'you dont love someone because the sex is good, the sex is good because you love them'

[aka pixi]

yes, no, yes

[legend758duo]

wise men say only fools rush in.
lol
they say a lot these wise men lol

[legend758duo]

make up your mind pix.
not like a woman to be unsure lol

[aka pixi]

hmmm but it was a hard question legend lol

[legend758duo]

but do they require an msagro ???

sorry im a bit backwards lol

[legend758duo]

hard?

oooerrr pixi.
im blushing now .

legend eh?

pet names now too.
better get my tuxedo out.
i feel a date coming on .
lol

[sophie_1003]

me and my boyfriend went for about a year with only having sex every couple of months, if that (I had repeated down-there problems) and our relationship is and was through that time, great! However, sex does help, I got very paranoid he was going to get fed up of waiting but he was lovely, as always! But now we're having sex again I feel a lot more secure, smsagro arent necessary all the time if you're in love with the person although it would be a bit frustrating if you never had one! But maybe if you were just in the relatioship for sex then i would have thought that theyd be necessary! Sorry, very long winded rambling answer there!

[aka pixi]

"pet names now too.
better get my tuxedo out.
i feel a date coming on .
lol"


hmm better not be fish chips and mushy peas at the side of the canal like last time grrr lol

[~posy-jo~]

mmmmmmmmmmm sex!! sorry, what was the question?? there is more to a relationship than sex definately, but good sex i think can improve it xXx

[unruliejulie]

Of course there is, and loads of it!!!!! Good sex adds to a good relationship but i certainly dont think its the be all and end all and if you truly love someone the sex isnt the most important thing, not by a long shot. I think its more important to feel loved in lots of other ways! Sex sfor a woman starts long beofre she gets inthe bedroom anyway

I think You could be right about good sex keeping an otherwise loveless relationship alive though!

red's quote is spot on!!!!!

[Goodsoulette]

Don't think you can continue a proper relationship without sex but there is definitely more to a relationship than sex. I always thought it was cliche but I really think a guy who can make me laugh is absolutely the most important thing. I'm not entirely sure my present interest can do that though : (

[Goodsoulette]

oooh plan, next time he comes over I am gonna put the Mighty Boosh on and if he doesnt laugh, there shall be no loving.

[legend758duo]

as long as you dont laugh at him.
that might put a dampener on things .
pardon the pun lol.

pixi you said you liked sitting by the canal dipping your toes in .
lol

[Blyss]

My hubby and I used to go months without having nookie ,, but we were together 24 /7 for 4 years so I suppose we were sick lookin at each other.
Now though sex couldnt be better , its brillaint!!

[unruliejulie]

Blyss, i think we go through different stages regarding sex in long term relationships anyway over the years, sometimes it's great other times not so good!

[legend758duo]

is it with your hubby or not.
you werent very clear in your answer lol.
sorry had to ask

[Blyss]

ahhh you got me there Legend , now that would be telling .