Wow, what a gent.

[Trinny]

I posted a question here a couple of nights ago about my boyfriend and him not making a lot of effort for me.

Well tonight I went to my emails, and he had (yes taken the time!) to email me. To say he wants to move on. As, he had decided he is a free spirit! Been with the man for over 3 years. And all I got was an email.

Not even going to reply to it.

OK, this is not a question, I just wanted to vent off some steam. Sorry.

[dontask]

what a ar*se wipe he is . e mail after 3 years with him your better off with out him then . poor you

[jno]

don't waste too much time on regrets, but it might be worth going over in your memory what you liked about him, what warning signs you might have missed and so on, just so's you don't end up with another one like him.

[Trinny]

He goes on in this email, about how he wants to explore different things in life. But ends with with, I love you and always will.

Geez.....

[sair5412]

what an idiot he sounds!

You've had a lucky escape!! You deserve better!

Hope you're ok. xxx

[Trinny]

I am fine thanks Sair, but keep re reading the email, and it also says at the end, If you ever (ever!) meet someone who likes you, I hope you go out, as it will help you move on.

Like I need his permission.. Geez

[PinkFizz]

What an utter tw@t!!!!! You have had a lucky escape!!!! Might I suggest you post a question asking for the most sarcastic response to his email possible!!??

[dontask]

tell him you have some one already

[Trinny]

I cant even be bothered to reply to his email. He expects me to. But I wont give him the satisfaction.

[dontask]

dont blame you let him go to h ell good luck

[carrot99]

I agree with PinkFizz, what a waste of space, get out there girl and recapture your inner Trinny!

[curlyfilm]

probably best to leave him wondering, i'm sure he's waiting for a reply,
looks like a lucky escape, so think of the positive

ps, a little revenge is always sweet..lol

[Trinny]

sorry I am not replying to you all individually, but yes, will leave him wondering. I am sad that I spent so much of my life planning a future with someone, who at the end of the day, could only muster a goodbye email.

[sense4all]

I am sad and glad for you. What a plank he is, that's sad. I am glad the silly billy has shown his true emotional depth to you. Don't forget to print the email and frame it to remind you what a narrow escape you have had. Get the gladrags on hun! and if you can borrow Caz' boots so much the better.

Any one else think of Carrie Bradshaw and the post- it note? lol. See Trinny it could be worse ... you coulda' been lumbered with him for ife!

[Trinny]

thank you sense4all, I have printed the email, never thought of doing that. Can sit and read that when I feel a "I loved him" moment coming on. Having a drink now, and feeling lonely :(

[seekeerz]

none of that now, girl - you've had a narrow escape, so NO feeling lonely - I know that's hard when you've so much time and effort in to the relationship - now is the time to concentrate on YOU - it's ME time, by the bucketful !!!

Please don't weaken and reply to his email, better still get a new number so any future loving ??&*%^ messages from him get trashed.

Think of the things you wanted to do and didn't because HE didn't want to, and now go out and do them - don't ask me how I know, I just Do !!

Chin up, girl, big smile, and come back soon, tell us about the new man in your life !!

[PinkFizz]

He will be wondering if you even got the email seeing as how you haven't replied - not that IS funny thinking about him stewing, and wondering if he should re-send it! lol

[Champagne]

Oh my God! You went out with him too???!!! Damn, that little bu99er certainly gets about! Hahahahaha!

You sound like pretty strong, Trinny, so I say delete the e-mail and move on and never, ever think about him again.

Let's have a girls' night out!! When are you free?