Txting

[4getmenot]

Have you ever wanted to text someone so bad but know its wrong to

[redcrx]

yeah but you DO deserve better! remember that.

[wigglebum]

Sounds to me you definately deserve better!!

If this other fella wants to give you the world let him. Special treats can be nice but a simple txt saying " they miss you, you're lovely, can't wait to see you again" They are worth they're weight in gold xx

[888sally888]

Go for the new man - he sounds much better and DO NOT TEXT THE OTHER ONE - he is not worthy!!

PS sorry for shouting!!

[river]

yer dont do it delete the number and if you know it by heart everytime it rus through your head start saying defference numbers eg 07987654321. If you carry on doing it soon you wont be able to remember it and you wont have this problem aas you wont be able to contact them...sorted!

[4getmenot]

Maybe I�m just scared then, you know me redcrx I�m too independent. Maybe subconsciously I go for the ones that wont want me, always have. The one boy I went out with for years I hurt maybe I'm punishing myself.

[4getmenot]

And I�m scared that if I do go for the new one, the ex will come back and get in my head again and I�ll end up hurting the new one.

[redcrx]

well time to change then 4get. go with the guy who will treat you right! You would never intentionally hurt anyone, youre too soft.
Give the new guy a call and ask him out on a date, start slow and see what happens.
your ex will see what he missed out on, he had long enough to make things right and get serious.

[redcrx]

if new fella is the right one then you wouldnt give ex a second thought, he wont be able to get into your thoughts again.
Time to move on, you can do it and youll feel better for it in time xxx

[redcrx]

there you go 4get, jet off to the sun

[4getmenot]

maybe a break for a bit, so the ex cant come back and do his usual 'didnt take you long' trick to make me feel bad. I did go out with the new one a long time ago and he dumped me because he wasnt over his ex so maybe he'll understand if I say I need time. When he dumped me he hurt me and so I don�t want to hurt him doing the same thing, you may wonder why I�m going back if he hurt me, well he�s been after me past year now and keeps saying how that was the biggest regret of his life, so maybe I can give him a chance.

[4getmenot]

what sun??

[redcrx]

legend is in tenerife lol

[4getmenot]

Ok I'm coming to get ya :-). Maybe the ex has already found himself someone else and thats why I havent heard from him

[redcrx]

no-one can replace you 4get.
But dont you worry about what hes doing with his life, you concentrate on enjoying yours xx

[4getmenot]

He�s had one too many chances Pa____ul. Plus I don�t see a future anyway, his best mate used to be my mate and absolutely hates me, even though I�ve done nothing wrong, personally I think he gets jealous and tries keeping him away from me, I cant keep going over the same thing with him, he doesn�t have the time for me, I�m just there when he gets lonely. But I�m just not sure whether I like the other because he�s giving me the attention I desperately wanted from the other.

[4getmenot]

I'm not that young and I have let too many good ones slip past. I'm at the stage where I want to settle down, I've had too much having fun already :-)