Depressed :o(

[missyR]

I've just broken up with my boyfriend. He can't except that actually it's probably my hormones playin up!
I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself i suppose.
It's going to be harder now when i have the baby so does anybody know of any help sites? Like some kind of single mother forum?

I'm just beginning to doubt my ability to cope when the baby comes.

[dot.hawkes]

hey he'll be back, he is probably scared to death of the responsibility, not all men make natural dads and if he has a mum he will be scared to tell her he may have said goodbye to her grandchild, in the meantime try to focus on yourself and baby. keep him informed and act like you are strong enough to do this alone but may need a lift to your anti-natal classes.

[havinmysay]

http://www.netmums.com/

Sorry that u have split up im a single parent and it is hard but u have to manage
there is lots of help outthere for u so dont be afraid to ask

[missyR]

Thanks Dot and havinmysay , he wasn't the babys dad Dot, he cleared off after i found out i was pregnant but then the man that i've just broken up with came along and picked up the pieces.

[Scarlett]

Is there no chance of you getting bacl together? Where is the baby's Dad?

[unruliejulie]

ahhhh missyR, big hug for ya.
You will cope, because thats what Mums do, come what may! I have had my bad times over the years when i was a single Mum after my marriage broke up, but now, i look at my rather grumpy but very handsome, well mannered and well balanced 15 year old son and know it was all worth it!
X X X
try this site, im registered on here. http://www.phpbbserver.com/mothersmeeting/port al.php

[havinmysay]

missyR i was in the same position my sons dad ran a mile when i told him i were pregnant allthough we had already split up,i started seeing someone else till i were about 5 month pregnant then i think he realised it wasnt all fun when i had really bad morning noon and night sickness wasnt interested in sex anymore and was just starting to show.
Your not gonna be single for ever (thats what i keep telling myself) chin up girly xx

[missyR]

No scarlet, he says he'd rather 'travel the world' but he is going to pay maintenance though. Thanks Unrulie, you've cheered me up :o) x.Thanks havinmysay too . x

[B00]

You've only just broken up with him, is it definite? It very well could just be a spat and things will smooth out. If it doesn't you will cope, you'll actually amaze yourself how well you will manage!

What I'd like to advise though is, if it is definite your breakup, please don't attempt to shut him out with regards to your pregnancy and then his child, not that I'm saying you will of course.

Take care of yourself
:-)

[unruliejulie]

Good missyR, thats what i like to hear. let me know if you register on that site and i'll tell you my username on there. X

[missyR]

Thanks B00 , and will do Julie enjoy your sundays x.

[bednobs]

surely you must have only been seeing him for about a month anyway? There is still a good six months to go before you're due anyway, so who knows?

[Lore]

Hi missyR sorry to hear your news :(
Pop over to www.bounty.com this forum is mostly pregnancy related but there are discussion forums for single parents, the month you're due, mums near you, general pregnancy etc etc.
Hope this helps ... Massive hug to you x

[Bohne]

Hey, I am not a single mum, but my husband is so often away for work, that sometimes I feel like one!

Sometimes I sit down in the evening, the house is a mess, and I don't know how I will ever be able to cope with baby, work, home and my involvement as a dive instructor in my spare time.
But then one look at my smiling baby and I know:
Whatever it takes, it's definitely worth it.

I wish you all the best for the remaining time of your pregnancy and the time thereafter.
Try not too worry too much, it will be much better for your baby!