Flirting

[miffy63]

A bloke comes in to my work once a week and, though he's very friendly, he's slightly creepy. My colleague said today that he'd noticed that this bloke never takes his eyes off me and is clearly flirting with me.
Now, I'm in a very good loving relationship and to be quite honest the whole thing makes me feel rather shuddery. I make small talk with him but there's always a bit of inuendo from his side and though I've made it clear about my relationship he still persists. How should I deal with this?

[laurence2]

Tell him you are not interested whatsoever, if this fails call him,

Needled!ck

[crete]

stop enjoying the attention and be more adult.

[miffy63]

Actually Crete I'm not enjoying the attention and I am very 'adult' as you put it. I'm not into game playing and frankly your answer is of no use to me what so ever so why did you bother. I care about peoples feelings and although he gives me the shudders I am always very polite to him.

[dyne]

I would say Hello, and leave it at that talk to him as little as possible, Only if he asks a direct question give him a direct answer and ignore him as much as possible, he should get the message after awhile.
The best brush off, that i heard, was when a creepy bloke asked my friend out, she said " i'm sorry it wouldnt work, I'm simply not physically attracted to you at all".
I think if you ignore him he'll know its a now starter and give up

[crete]

well miffy, i stand corrected and apologise

[miffy63]

Thank you Crete, apology accepted.