Am I being unreasonable?

[Trinny]

If you read my past questions on here you will know I have recently split with my long term partner (5 years together this year) anyway, we met last weekend, this weekend he was with one of his kids, so I didnt see him. and we were hoping to spend Easter weekend together (my kids would be with their dad) so a long weekend for me. Now he says his other son (who has stopped contact with his dad for over a year) but has turned up recently. Now wants to spend the weekend with his dad. The kid is 16 btw. (and a brat) So now I am left out again. Should I just dump the ex as he as been messing me around for basically the last 5 years

[Trinny]

it is confusing Dr spock. And I probably didnt post my question too well due to large consumption of wine

[ELVIS68]

Unreasonable?, (although I had to read it 5 times to make sense of it )....No


Dump him...Yes

[ummmm]

Well errrrr yes.....

Do you want to get back with him? and if he has been messing you around for the last 5 years....why?

[Trinny]

sorry Elvis.........it didnt make sense to me either when I read it afterwards. But I sort of understood it.. .... hic

[Trinny]

ummmm. its always been his family (not just kids) first. he says he loves me. (usually on the text) but I always say actions speak louder than words..........sorry am a bit pi*ssed. Confused and should be in bed

[Trinny]

last bit on this. But when I say I am not happy with situation, he turns it around on me and says I am being unreasonable. Off to bed to sleep off wine. night all xx

[ummmm]

So why is he an ex?

Do you still want to be with him?

[4getmenot]

if he's an ex get rid, he's just mucking you about. And his kid should come first so dont blame the child.

[MiniN]

kids should come first and thats a good quality to find in a man....but regardless, you sound miserable witht eh situation and i think you should send him on his merry way!