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To stay with her ????
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I've been with a girl now for 3.5 years,we have never argued and we do have lots of fun together.The question is do I stay with her
I know its shallow but when I look at her I dont want to "Be" with her,but I really do like her,she's fun to be with and she makes me laugh.Should I just make do with feeling like this or do something about it ??
I want to meet someone I fancy !
What should i do ???
I know its shallow but when I look at her I dont want to "Be" with her,but I really do like her,she's fun to be with and she makes me laugh.Should I just make do with feeling like this or do something about it ??
I want to meet someone I fancy !
What should i do ???
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You need to end this relationship. Its unfair on you and its unfair on her. It sounds like you'd end up cheating on this girl if/when you meet someone new and who you do fancy. I think you need to break it off with her now, she deserves your honesty.
You never know, in time, you may be able to still enjoy her company and be friends with her, but don't expect this straight away and it may too difficult for her or even both of you to do right now.
Hope this helps. x
You need to end this relationship. Its unfair on you and its unfair on her. It sounds like you'd end up cheating on this girl if/when you meet someone new and who you do fancy. I think you need to break it off with her now, she deserves your honesty.
You never know, in time, you may be able to still enjoy her company and be friends with her, but don't expect this straight away and it may too difficult for her or even both of you to do right now.
Hope this helps. x
marti
stop making excuses the fact that u even need to ask us means something is very wrong here mate, have a trial seperation u know what i was in a simillar situation with this guy i never was in love, i loved him , cared very deeply but always had doubts do not be with someone for the wrong reasons ,
u can still stay friends believe it or not , no one wants to break someones heart
but ultimatly it will be you who thinks what if?? xx
stop making excuses the fact that u even need to ask us means something is very wrong here mate, have a trial seperation u know what i was in a simillar situation with this guy i never was in love, i loved him , cared very deeply but always had doubts do not be with someone for the wrong reasons ,
u can still stay friends believe it or not , no one wants to break someones heart
but ultimatly it will be you who thinks what if?? xx
For what it's worth I felt this way about someone ~ and made the mistake of marrying him.
I wish I had the guts to have finished with him before it got that far...we divorced 7 years later but 2 kids have been born into that relationship ~ and even though I love them to bits I grew to hate their dad :o(
I wish I had the guts to have finished with him before it got that far...we divorced 7 years later but 2 kids have been born into that relationship ~ and even though I love them to bits I grew to hate their dad :o(