sex on the first date

[mclark123]

is it true that a guy will never look at you twice if you sleep with them on the first date an if so when is the right time two jump into bed? mclarks wee sister wants too know

[Miss Random]

Law of logistics says he does look at you twice, second time being in the morning!

Tell wee sister, do NOT sleep with him first night, .....
Men are conditioned to 'chase', give him something to chase after. Nobody wants yesterdays paper, most don't even want todays..... We all want tomorrows!

Best time to sleep with him?..
When he is treating you like you always wanted to be treated, anything prior to that 'sets the limit', sad but true.

[RATTER15]

I think she will know when the time is right!! but it most certainly isn't on the first date, if she sleeps with all men on the first date, she will be washed up and worn out in a few months if she likes to test the water a bit. Tell her to be selective and like miss Random said, we do like a bit of a chase!!

It would get boring if every date was a dead cert!!

Let alone all the diseases you could get!!

[Pippa68]

The only person I have ever slept with on the first date I ended up marrying...12 years on we are still very happy, so he obviously didn't think I was too much used goods..lol.

[joko]

unfortunately, men are that shallow that they will judge a girl on that first and formost - regardless of how great she is, so tell her to hang back, especially if she is young

[redhead23]

i would also recommend not sleeping on the first date it makes a lot of men think you are easy and if u sleepwith them on the first date - then how many have u slept with before them

nothing comes easy in life and you should not either !!!
respect yourself

[tigga]

its a myth -ive gone on to have relationships with many girls that i slept with on first dates.

[joko]

good on you tigga.

to be honest any man who would judge on that is not the man for me - so no loss really

[legend758duo]

Ive had long lasting relationships with these so called " easy lays".
Didnt make any difference to me.Though it did save a lot of farting about .lol

[joko]

good point legend - there is a lot of farting about -

whether she sleeps with you or not, you can bet that if she fancies you - she certainly wants to, and has likely thought about doing it with you - same way you do about her, the only reason many women don't is simply because of how they worry it will look.

if she is sha99ing you in her head she may as well be doing it for real! lol

[Pippa68]

I agree, joko & legend.

Mr P always says that it is best to get it all out of the way..otherwise you may get too far into 'mates' territory and sex would be too weird!

[Libarena]

It hasn't been true in my case.