Long distance love

[ryando]

Im 25/male - i fell in love with an American girl i met in Argentina 16 months ago and have been in LTR with her since. We've met twice - i've visited her, she's visited me, and it's been extremely passionate between us.

I can not deal with a long term relationship now and want to be with her. I have no skills to go out to usa and get a visa (although i do have a degree) - she is about to graduate from harvard.

She's asked me to spend a few months with her in USA stating july. Im terrified of this - it is so daunting but the strain on me now is immense. Its either accept that we live in different countries and that she is only 21 and should be free!!! Or go out their and try to make it happen with the knowledge that i'll only be able to stay for 90days. Help!!!

[havinmysay]

if u have nothin to lose,go for it,its only a few months but it will be an experience for you and a holiday of a lifetime.

GO GET YOUR GAL!!

[snug]

My step-son met an American girl while he was on holiday. He was struck with her so he went back as often as he could. He then overstayed his visa and worked as an illegal imigrant. Eventually married the girl and got his green card. He now runs his own business has house and children. He does not have any qualifications at all. All this in 12 years.
Go for it. If you don't you will forever regret it no matter how it works out.

[scotchollie]

Completely agree. Go for it.

At least by the end of living together you'll know if she's the one for sure.

[CheekyChops]

As said above - Go For It!!!

If it doesn't work out, what have you lost? You will have had the chance of living in the US for a few months.

If it does work, you will find some way of making it happy ever after!

You don't want to look back in ten years and think 'If only I had gone...'

[jump82]

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