help real problem here !!!

[redhead23]

help guys !i was seeing a bloke for 6 months we have remained friends, i went back to his last weekend just to stayt meanwhile he has been sleeping with this other girl , and she was in his house at the time , however danny came to meet me as i was drunk and went home with him now lucy who was staying at the time slept on the sofa whilst me and danny slept in the bed - nothing happened, but she is out to get me . im really frightened as she is not the sort of girl to mess with \ danny told her nothing happened but she dont believe him , do u think i should meet up with her or lie really low till this blows over she knows a lot of very scary people and i am frightened genuinely !

[~Wingnut~]

Oo dear redhead, if she slept on the sofa knowing you were in bed with the bloke she was sleeping with (I take it it was casual? not boyf/girlf thing?) why didn't she do something then? Why threaten now when you've gone, I think she's all talk and is just trying to keep you away by threatening violence.
This Danny should have a word with her, esp if their not actually going out together but I am guessing he is probably liking the fact that this is happening over him!

Could be a good idea to lay low for a while but if she or anyone threatens you or you feel in danger then go straight to the police please!! Let this Danny know that you will not be threatened and will go to the police, maybe he will pass it on!

Keep safe! xx

[redhead23]

thank u wing , yes they have slept together 2 but she thinks more of him then he does , im so worried today i cant eat anything feel very stressed x thanks for replying

[~Wingnut~]

Aww try not to get too worried, she is obviously hating the fact he doesn't feel the same way she does and is taking it out on you and possibly blaming you for that but it's not your fault in the slightest! She sounds like she is very insecure.
I wouldn't antagonise the situation any further by speaking or going back to his place anymore, like you say lay low, there's no point in putting yourself in unnecessary danger with her or her friends. She's the one with the problem. Remember, accept no threats and go to the police!

Take care xx

[redhead23]

thank u x

[bigmamma]

Hi redhead love,
Please try to eat something and try not to be frightened.
As Wingnut says , you must get help if you feel in danger.
However , she may just have had her feathers ruffled and it will all be empty threats .
Hugs x ;-)

[havinmysay22]

i cant understand why she never said anything there and then and why on earth did she not say anything when he took u back to his
have u spoke to this danny since ? x

[redhead23]

thatw what i thought if she was that mad she should of said it there and then

yes ive txt him today he apologises and says not to worry but its easy for him
its me that has a psycho and i mean psycho on my back !

[Lovinit]

I was thinkin the same :S

[sleepyj]

oh red sorry to hear you have a problem like this dont know what to suggest . just take care xxxx you not having much luck are you ? a date from hell last night :0

[havinmysay22]

are u still seeing this bloke? i think it would prob be best to cut all ties from him if he wants to get involved with nutters thats his problem although he cant have thought much of her if he would rather share a bed with u.
dont worry yourself lovie she sounds all mouth to me u might be abit shook up now but u'll be fine in a couple of days
she's obviously jealous
bless u i wanna come and give u a hug now,keep smiling sweetie xx

[divegirl]

Why did you sleep with your ex knowing his current 'shag' was in the house?

[Roughquest]

Red I suggest you follow your own advice that you gladly gave poor 'Chimpanzee' in an earlier post ! How could you sleep in the same bed as a guy who already had a g/f ???? Dangerous ground for starters. That's not good now is it, no woman is gonna believe the 'nothing happened' line....that is just so naive. You must deal with the consequences.

[redhead23]

thanks having my say he told me he only slept with her twice she is a bunny boiler , i must admit is weired situation as for the last comment about his current girl - i have been mates with danny for 6 years i always stayed over , im not just gonna go out of his life coz he is seeing someone - by the way people lucy has 3 kids and is actually married and has been staying with danny coz she is best friends with his mum

and obviously things developed between them , but she is acvtually cheatimg on her husband what a mess hey ?

[redhead23]

well rough nothing did happen i was upset , u can share a bed without jumping on them you know !!!

[megan07]

Hi Red i would just lay low for now, he should not of led you into this awkward situation knowing that this girl is a bit of a nutter.
If you feel frightened or threatened at any time ring the police immediately, keep your mobile phon on you when you go out, take care, love megan.

[redhead23]

thank u megan mate

[redhead23]

rough - she is not his gf just to make the point

[havinmysay22]

to be honest i no this girl has threatened u but the police will do jack sh1t about it
does this girl no where u live,work etc
she sounds a right sl@g bet her hubby wont be to pleased with this danny either.
i would def leave it be with danny especially until it all blows over
i wonder what she tells her hubby and kids when she stops out

[redhead23]

her husband knocks her about , u would never think it ihave never met someone so fiery in my life , they have had problem with their heating so she been staying at dannys with the kids coz obviously they need to have warmth at night !

no she does not know where i live but it would not be hard fro her to find out ! x

[Roughquest]

Calm down Red, this you seem to be blowing this all out of proportion and most likely are emtpy threats anyway, forget it and get on with things, I doubt very much she will 'beat' seven bells out of you, stop worrying ! These people are usually all talk no action. Police wont do anything so I wouldnt bother with them either.