Anyone watching Wifeswap?

[Rubyrose]

I hate it sooooo much when people are just ignorant and they refuse to open their minds to other possibilities!
There is a woman on there who is just playing up to the cameras and having a go at anyone who looks at her!

Grrrrrrr...

What character trait do you hate in others?

[wiggal]

I am!
I really hate the families that are in such strict regimes, that there kids have no chance to be a kid!
Like the oe a few weeks back, the kids were home schooled, lived in the middle of knowhere and new no one apart from their parents!

[Joe_the_Lion]

nah, I am watching Janine Butcher on Heartbeat. she scrubs up ok. Better than the pig on Eastenders.

[~posy~]

i'm watching it! when she went storming out of the party coz noone was paying attention to her!! lol!! xXx

[Rubyrose]

I know that they pick families who will clash and families that are extreme but it annoys me that the people just don't think 'well we are here anyway, so lets just have a laugh'!

[~posy~]

i'm watching it! when she went storming out of the party coz noone was paying attention to her!! lol!! i can's stand people that think they are better than everyone else, either prettier or richer or smarter!! noone should be the same but that doesn't mean we shouldn't all be equals!!! and also bad manners, people that don't say thankyou when you hold the door open! i normally comment really loudly!! 'thankyou, oh no sorry thats what you're supposed to say!!' lol

[Rubyrose]

Wardy... Lol... What channel? I want to look?

Posy - I know.. that was sooo 'Look at me'! She kept saying 'Leave me, let me go' then when she went outside she said 'No-one is paying attention to me'!!! Lol

I will turn over to E4 for the 'Aftermath' now.

[~posy~]

oooh how did that happen! i never pressed submit!!! AB is playing tricks on me today i'm sure!!! lol

[Rubyrose]

Lol... looks like it!

Does everyone know about the Facebook thing?
If you have a Facebook account then search for 'The Answerbank Appreciation' group.... we have a few members now. :o)

[wiggal]

I can understand why some people get annoyed and irritated about things if they feel strongly about it.
I mean if i was on it, and some one came into my house and started telling my partner how to look after my cats and if like ive seen in some cases, they moved the pets outside permanently, i dont think i would stand for it!
Yes, give it ago, but i do think a certain level of respect should be given to someones house/familly.

[Joe_the_Lion]

Just finished rubes. Hey ho.

[wiggal]

You can watch the aftermath though Joe and see how each women reacts when they see themselves on the programme!

[sleepy1]

i have watched it, now im watching this after thing on e 4 .

[Rubyrose]

I can see why people get annoyed but I think it's the defence mechanism coz the second someone criticizes you then you feel you should defend yourself... but thats the worst thing to do... really you should listen and take it in and think about it and then think if you should be defending yourself!

[Rubyrose]

That Tina woman is driving me mad!!! She is sooooo agressive! And she is soooo orange!!!! Lol

[wiggal]

If some one criticised the way my pets were kept, yes i would kick off!
I wouldnt stand for it!
I just know someone who didnt like animals would be put in my house! But no one would get away with changing how they are looked after, fed. cared for and the attention they get!
As bad as it may make me sound, i wouldnt stand for it.
Other then that, i dont think anything else would bother me!

[Rubyrose]

Thing is... if they could see something you couldn't like perhapsthe pets got in the way of another area of your life (doubtful but you know what i mean) then wouldn't you consider listening?

[wiggal]

The only way my pets get in the way is for holidays, but then neither me or my partner have been away for over 5 years. (not because of the pets may i add!) And neither of us are bothered by that. Next holiday we have booked is in S.A in 2010 for the world cup!
But if someone could come up with an example, then i would see if/how it would affect us!

[wiggal]

And more to the point, i would be serverly ******* off if someone came in and changd the way they were cared for without speaking to me if they ad any issues with them.
If they didnt like them, or saw any problems they may cause, i wouldnt have them change it, maybe they could bring up the subject at the meeting at the end and then i would be ok to think about it or listen.

[Rubyrose]

May I make a suggestion? Don't apply for the program! Lol

[wiggal]

Thats what i was just thinking to myself lol!
I wouldnt qualify though as me & ny partner arent married so im not a 'wife'!
He has just said to me though talking about this thread, that he would never ever let anyone come into our house and change the way are pets are looked after :)