how do u mend a broken heart?

[justasking]

Unrequited love, how do u get over it & forget him?

[cazzz1975]

I still hold a torch for someone even though I have a partner, I have found it difficult to shake them off, I am trying believe me!!!, just when I do something brings him back to the fore front again!!

it has been 12 years :(

[raysparx1]

Hello justasking, The only thing I can say is,and you will have heard it before, it will get easier, time will make it easier,so all you can do is take it one day at the time, you will have good days,bad days, you cannot put a time scale on it, try to occupy the evenings to take your mind off of him, that is the worst time, the darkest hour is just before the light, take care, Ray xx

[justasking]

Thanks xx

[legend759]

you never get over them.you just think about them less and less...then one day you start to think about someone else.it takes time the length of which depends on the individuals involved.start thinking less.its easy after a while.i found in troubled times a litttle vodka goes a long way.each to their own tho.


good luck.

[Roughquest]

You wont truly get over them, you will move on and this will take time, you wont ever forget them either, I dont think there is anything worse than unrequited love...it can be unbearable, I find if I have had too much to drink HE is the first person I want to call, run to, hold in my arms.

[Marvelman]

When you meet mr right, you will wonder what you saw in him at all. if he does'nt want you then he is not the one for you, get on with your life and put him out of your mind.it is no good crying over him, get yourself out and about and you will meet many blokes that you will have fun with, when you meet the right one make certain that you dont get hurt again, play hard to get.

[SurreyGuy]

I'm can empathise with you.

I had a fling with a married woman (who watches the same footie team I do) about 5 yrs ago. It took about 18 months of texting, e-mailing, secretive phone calls and gazing at each other at matches before we slept together (for our one and only time!). I can honestly say I fell in love with her (1st woman EVER!) and she SAID she felt the same. She then went on a guilt trip and started ignoring me (she still ignores me to this day!).

About 2 yrs after that, I met my last girlfriend and fell in love with her, thus 4getting the "footie" one. That relationship broke down and I then couldn't get either one out of me head!

Problem is that I STILL see the "footie one" at footie. What makes it even worse is that she's just given birth, so I had her shoved in my face in the "Congratulations" section of the matchday programme!

Anyway, I'd like to say it gets easier, but from experience I can't say it does - just being honest. I wish you luck.