What's the nicest thing...

[Sasha13]

...that anyone has ever said to you?

[Goodsoulette]

You put your feet up and ill put the basecoat on...... my dad last weekend.

[redcrx]

same as B00, Just after I gave birth when my boyfriend told me how much he loved me and our son and thanked me.

[Goodsoulette]

makes me super jealous your boys were nice after you gave birth, mine didnt even get me a bunch of flowers in fact he just shouted at me about 2 hours later *sob sob sob*

[B00]

He shouted at you goodsy??? WTF for? i really hope you're kidding!

Incidently- Mr Boo bought me a massive bunch of flowers, a little silver locket (for pics of mini boo to be put inside), a pink teddy bear for her and a prawn butty, my 1st seeing as you can't eat shellfish during pregnancy.

[Skreecheeboy]

Goodsoulette, this is the thread about nice things people have said, you should really put that one on bad things people have said thread, perhaps along with eyes too far apart! :p

[Goodsoulette]

oh yeah, I forgot about the eye thing but its a continuation of conversation Skreech and not the worst thing someone has said to me.

Boo it was because I didn't tell him to pack the carseat when I went into labour, I wanted to go home that day and he went ballistic because he would have to travel for 30 minutes to go back and get it. He was in a mood about it for 5 days.

[Skreecheeboy]

Are you not supposed to stay in for a day or 2 to recover? I thought child birth was meant to be a terrible ordeal and that you're always knackered and full of drugs after it. I wouldn't have thought of packing a carseat either!

[Goodsoulette]

No as long as you are alright you can home after 6 hours. The only reason you have to stay in is if you have complications or have had an epidural.

[B00]

I'm sorry goodsy, but im totally gobsmacked- I dont want to offend you here, especially if you're still with the guy., but let me get a few things straight?

He shouted at you because YOU forgot the childseat whilst you were in labour???

He sulked for 5 days about it, even though you'd just done the most wonderful thing you can do- give birth to HIS child? He seriously carried it on despite HIS baby being newly born?

Words fail me...........

[redcrx]

blimey Goodsoulette, id have killed my chap if he'd done that.
as it was he complained that he was tired as he'd been up all night. he seemed to forget that id been up all night too and that id been giving birth lol

[Skreecheeboy]

I think you girls are sticking up for each other for the sake of it. I didn't think it was the norm to leave after 6 hours, make the most of the nurses running round after you and the free food which you don't need to cook! Going home indeed, I'm gobsmacked!

[sleepy1]

do you want to get in my bed :)

[Hellyon]

my brand new born son 'wah,wah,wah'

[Goodsoulette]

Yeah it is pretty normal Skreech and I have regular contact with my mum who is a midwife and its more and more commonplace. As long as you give birth in the morning and its not your first, it is very, very normal. As it happen mister, I would have loved to have stayed in and got a rest but he wasn't happy for me to do so and it was very noisy in there.

Of course we broke up Boo lol how can you stay with that?

On another note, I went up town shopping the next day and lots of lovely people were stopping me and telling me I looked amazing considering I had given birth 24 hours earlier.

[Skreecheeboy]

You always look amazing Goodsoulette, the camera never lies!

[unruliejulie]

I'm really lucky cause i get a lot of nice things said to me so choosing the best would be pretty difficult! x

[missyR]

"Ruby, you'll be a great mam"
I was really scared when i first got pregnant, especially when it came to telling me mam so for her to say that a few months later it felt...official, if that makes any sense at all lol.

[helliebobs]

Jules bragging as per!!!
Actually I'm lucky as well in that I have someone who says nice things to me all the time and he always boosts my moral when I feel down. I hope he reads this because I'm not sure if he remembers saying it to me but when I was pregnant I was quite stressed out at work and he was worried about me and told me " A pregnant woman is a precious thing", because he wanted me to make sure I was looking after myself properly. It made me cry :)

[nutgoneflake]

My mum said to me, after my first son was born, "Only now, with a child of your own, will you know how much I love you."

It always makes me cry when I remember that!! (*sniff*)

[unruliejulie]

ahhh hellie, im not bragging, its just that i know an awful lot of lovely people! :-) (you included)