:-(

[sexiii]

Im bisexual, 16 and femaile, so is my best mate. we had a fling a while but then both agreed that it was a bad thing to do. since, ive developed fellings for her again, but i dont think she likes me in that way. what shall ido? i really fancy her like mad!!!!!!!

[andy hughes]

If your friend is showing no signs of interest - and as a woman, your antenna for such non-verbal information is far more highly tued than a man's - then you will have to curb your instincts, or risk loosing her as a friend. Sometimes it's OK to 'try' as you have done, but if it's not happening, don't try and force the issue, you can loose your dignity at best, your friendship at worst. I don't mean to sound flippant, I'm sure this is difficult for you, and I do sympathise, but making a dificult situation worse won't help anyone. Good luck.

[darkstah]

Well, i am a professional psychologist and i believe that you should asscertain whether your feelings are true and speak your heart to your friend, it could work out, it could not. But remember you only live once so you should do what you think is best.

[zacky_boy]

hi Sexii i am in the same possition as you i am a 16 year old female who has feelings for my firend. i end up asking her how she felt and it all wroked out so maby go for it. she can only say no

[Suzysue]

I totally understand and relate to your dilema, at your age I went through the same thing (am 21 now) had a fling with my female best mate and then I developed feelings for her... Chances are if you had a fling she does feel something for you, however, chances are she is probably confused about her sexuality and how she really feels... You're at an age where all that kind of thing gets mixed up etc... Am pleased to say it does get easier and if your friendship is strong enough she will understand if you tell her your true feelings... If it turns out she doesn't feel the same way then at least you'll know and be able to move on with your feelings... Either way, remember things always have a funny way of working themselves out...