on the subject of sex...

[nannon]

its a bit embarrassing but does anyone else get extremely sore?? I dont know why but recently its very painful all over (not particualy during intercourse...) We use KY etc but just say we have sex on a friday on the sunday i am still sore! He is not rough or anythingso i just dont understand it...think sometimes this is why my sex drive dwindles sometimes!!!

[leelapops]

We are sex mad here!

Yes I do know what you mean nannon, I used to have massive problems, erm, "allowing access"...I still do sometimes now, I just dry up, which is uncomfortable, nd also gives my partner a huge complex! Even though it really isn't him! I am not sure what can be done about it though. Have you seen a doctor? They might put your mind at ease, as you could have a bit of an infection, or something else medical.

x

[tiny e.a]

I do sometimes but not most of the time I don't. Sometimes though I also get a pain in what feels like my stomack but is actually probably lower down, it's a really weird dull pain and I don't know what cause it. It doesn't really bother me though as it's quite rare, don't even really know why I mentioned it!

[4getmenot]

has anybody been watching that embarrasing illnesses lately theres a few problems like this on there

[nannon]

yeah i should go to docs i guess - its not that i get dry at all - it just feels like he's been going at it like a drill bless him and he really hasnt - its like friction burns on the 'surface' rather than inside but as i say - i used KY and am not dry so just dont get it!

[redcrx]

are you using condoms? it may be that youre sensitive to the rubber / latex thats used if the pain starts afterwards rather than during

[redcrx]

or even the KY

[nannon]

well i am allergic to latex so we don't use condoms...and we recently swapped to another gel...Play i think it is...Do you think maybe they have the same ingredients as each other? Although it can happen when we dont use it as well...hmmm....maybe i'm just allergic to my bloke!!! hehe!!!

[curly~sue]

As though you have been hit with a battering ram nannon? Or is that just me ? Maybe that's also lowers our sex drive ?

[Skreecheeboy]

As a bloke I get very tender after sex too. I think it's probably worse for us but do you hear me complaining?

[fine,thanks]

painful intercourse should be investigated be a doctor, do you really expect a diagnosis on an site like this ? try google, ; )

[Supernick]

Here here Skreecheeboy. If I use a condom I'll be sore for a day because of the friction

[claireybear]

You should definitly visit a Doc. I had a similar problem about 2 years ago, to the extent that I was on hols in Italy and I had to wear skirts with no knickers as my bits were on fire after sex with my partner

Don't want to alarm you, but I found out I had Chlymidia, so it is absolutely vital you get checked out. Best to be on the safe side!

[nannon]

oh my god - hope thats not it!! ****** - will def get it checked out thanks.
fine,thanks - your sayint i could get a medical diagnosis on google??!! Well i never!!