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Thanks for all your replies ! Very helpful! But Elvis has his the nail on the head here, my new man does have a problem, its so obvious, I cant win no matter if I have my phone on silent, vibrate, or even off. My fella did apologise and did admit that he has a bit of a problem as it touched a nerve with his ex - she did the same thing with her phone and he used to catch her texting in secret, we had a good chat as I said he cannot go on like this making me scared to use my own phone ! I said it wasnt right and if he reacted again like this - I would leave for good, 3 strikes and he is out, so he knows where he stands now, I told him I am not hiding anything at all, and for him to start to trust and if anything he is unsure about just to talk to me, not go into a sulk. So only time will tell. I will keep you updated. RQ xxx