is this wrong????

[rugeleyboy]

i know a 31 yr old who has got together with a woman and she has a 9yr old son! well its been going on now for 4 or 5 months and they are a happy little unit! however, its been mentioned that over the weekend he was playing football with the son and they were playing a game called " bare ar5e" this game goes like this................... the first person to let in 10 goals has to bare their bum and let the other kick the ball at it?? surley thats wrong on lots of levels?????

ps...... i would never of suspected him of anything untoward before i heard this?

[Hellyon]

sorry when I said 'encouraged.......anymore' I meant innocent stripping off at the beach or in peoples gardens not that once it was a good idea!

[Octavius]

Sounds quite tame compared to some of the �initiation� processes and games that I used to have to partake in my younger years in various gangs and clubs etc. Nothing quite like an arse-kicking contest or being raised up the mast with a broomstick through your jumper and a bucket on your head � never mind the toothpaste on the todger. Honestly, when I think back some of those people would have been arrested now, but apart from a bit of embarrassment and humiliation, no long term harm done in my personal circumstances. I certainly wouldn�t inflict anything of those on others.

What is wrong about this is that the poor kid has to score 10 goals first, how is that fair?

[johnlambert]

I was a winger pa________________________________ul I didnt take part in the scrum, however when we were all showering vtogether after the game the props etc would all describe the various "tackle" they encountered lol

[ruby27]

I did say I might be alarmist. As someone who works with victims and perpetrators, I may well be over suspicious and see things that are not really there.
but, grooming is a term used by professionals working in the area of child abuse, certainly not a term owned by the daily mail. God forbid I would every read such a right wing paper, I am a fully paid up member of the loony left.

[rugeleyboy]

i would far from gossip about this person.... the only people who have held a discussion about it are the people who were in the conersation this morning when he was talking about it?

i hope it is innocent and after a bit of mickey taking this morning we started to have a serious think about it and we all thought it was slightly strange??

[Surreylass]

he is leaving himself wide open for investigation if someone does a chinese whispers on this story.

[joko]

tricky one.

if you tell the police or woman, he may be genuinely innocent and it just hadn't occurred to him.

if you mention it to him to warn him how it could look, if he is up to anything he will just be more careful to hide it in future - however if he was up to something, if he was a calculating paedo i think he'd would know enough to have been keeping it hidden already, not be open and public about it.

lets face it, if you are up to no good you are not going to broadcast it are you?

[society]

This is wrong. This could lead into committing other serious perverted crimes.