Is she being unresonable ?

[shy-guy]

Im having trouble with my girlfriend at the moment everything i do she seems to hate me for it i do try hard but shes snappy and harsh with me im getting to the stage where i cant take it any more shes also 6 months pregnant and i dont know what to do when she gets angry with me.

please help or suggest what i can do to sort her out or help her throgh this.

thanks

[xhxmxsx]

it's called hormones and being 6 months they will be doing overtime

[shy-guy]

she says its hormones too but not sure sometimes she like a wolf in sheeps cloting and has a nasty bite too.

care so much about her it worries me shes pushing me away and i cant stop worrying myslef about it

[sosad]

shy-guy it's her hormones, she won't realise she's doing it. dispite all thoses womens libbers out there we are all different. You probably will have this for 3 months after the babies born either that or loads of tears.

Keep telling her you love her and that everything will be alright, try telling her how you feel but that you understand, it will all be alright in the end - just stick with it.

best of luck

[laurence2]

How about trying to understand the emotions she is going through {6 months pregnant}.

Hate is a strong word to use, why does she ''hate'' you then? can you be abit more elaborate, also do i detect that both of you are very young?

[Psychick]

Have a little sympathy for the poor lass!

Ive turned into Jekyll and Hyde since falling pregnant.....sometimes I expect my boyfriend to walk out I can be that nasty! lol

You cant "sort her out" but you can be there for her every step of the way........she will thank you for it in the end.

Can I just say thoough.......when it comes to the labour.......wear a very very tough skin!!!! lol

[Goodsoulette]

If you are anything but kind and loving to her everyone will think you are the biggest prat in town. I once had to sit around at a dinner party and listen to my mates husband say to everyone

"I just don't find her sexual at all anymore, I just see her as a fat blob carrying my baby"


Shut up and put up with it.

[xhxmxsx]

sit her down when she is calm and tell her the way she is making you feel, explain you can imagine how she is feeling with the hormones etc and tell her you are trying your hardest, you arent meaning to annoy her etc.if she dont like that its because she is probably only telling you you're being annoying etc so u stop and leave her alone, give her space when she flips out, be extra romantic tell her you love her etc

[warpig3]

Flamin' heck Goody, think I would have reached over the table and gobbed him one myself, how did you manage not to?

[redcrx]

buy a book called 'the blokes guide to pregnancy'

Its a good read, i bought it for my boyfriend, and it may give you an idea of what she is going through.

and what you should do when she gets angry is talk to her!!!

[Cockney_si]

Had to laugh at you quote Goodsoulette....

It's a difficult time for you BOTH so just try give her everything she needs and even if she seems like she doesn't appreciate it I'm sure she does... I'm sure she's not always bad is she?

[Veebird]

Smack her in the gob? Why not give her a good kicking as well! I hope your answer was meant to be a joke. It wasn't tho. I don't think she should be nasty to you, there's no excuse for that and you shouldn't put up with it, hormones or not. She may well be playing on the fact she's heavily pregnant and knows you will try to please her, whatever she says. Be kind but stand up for yourself too.

[cazzz1975]

definately hormones, also looking and feeling pregnant is not good for ones ego, just try and be supportive, she might not be dealing with the change in her body and lifestyle very well.

Make her feel special (when she is in a good mood) and try to let the bad stuff go in one ear and out the other, might be worth mentioning to her midwife if she seems a bit extreme

[craigcoulter]

well to be honest most people would say you should just deal with it because she is pregnant, but if its so much that its affecting your relationship then you have every right to be worried. you obviously love her and like most problems ina relationship you need to talk them out. ask her if there's anything you can do to stop triggering the mood swings. maybe if you feel like shes gonna have a moody in the next 5mins offer to run her a bath make her a cup of tea and get her to relax. maybe a nice foot rub. but talk to her first let her know how your feeling too. we all know they're a pain in the backside in these times but it shouldn't be like how you describe it. best of luck mate.

[cazzz1975]

lol craig!

[helliebobs]

And pray to god she doesn't go overdue shy-guy because by that time she really will be well and truly fed-up!