should i be worried

[discoinferno]

boyfriend has gone to vegas for 10 days with the boys, not made any effort to contact me (went sunday morning)...should i be letting this bother me?

[crossroads]

No, only if he's bet the house and the family jewls on a game of high stakes baccarat.

[discoinferno]

was more worried on a 'has he met someone else/completely forgotten' me basis...but now u'v given me something else to worry about!!! thanks crossroads!

[neo.]

yes...hes probably shaggin strippers

[discoinferno]

ur not helping me here chaps!!

[bednobs]

no

[cruella]

I am sure you trust your boyfriend or you would not have been too happy that went to Vegas with the boys.
Allow him some time out without always phoning him. Men send their pals up if their girlfriends keep track of them.
Give him his space and he will glad to see you when he gets back, just as much as you will be glad to see him. It's a holiday. let him have some fun for 10 days.

[rasmus]

Havent you got any girlfriends you can go out with?Might take your mind off him.

[leelapops]

Hi discoinferno. I would be a bit peeved too, tbh! But don't chase him up, leave him to it, and just be yourself when he gets back. It would have been nice of him to call you at some point, but maybe he is just caught up in al that Vegas glitz :)
IS it the first time he's been away with the boys? Or his first time in Vegas? Or even abroad? He might just be excited to be there :)

[discoinferno]

hi
no not his first time. he didn't take his mobile cos its so expensive to call but promised he'd email me. i guess i'm just being paranoid but it would be nice to know he missed me!!
fortunately i'v got a good group of mates so i'm not pining too much, just the evenings are kinda lonely!
thanks everyone, i feel a bit better about it all now ; )
disco x

[pussnboots]

No need to worry at all, there is no women in Vegas who could possible be attractive or available. They are mostly middle aged Americans who just sit at the slot machines for hours on end, also they are all about 25 stone.

[nuoyg]

How long you been together for? Personally if it was me, I wouldn't be. You know what lads are like when they get together - don't want to be the one seen to be under the thumb. Plus time difference and expense.

[discoinferno]

thanks that helps loads!! : )
it always helps to talk it through, u'v helped my piece of mind lots!
will go out and enjoy myself tonight
Disco x

[Kirstyhev]

my boyf went to Amsterdam at the end of last year and didn't take his phone for the same reason. He promised to text / call me from someone else's mobile once he got there. After days of not hearing from him, I started to get a bit upset and down that he hadn't bothered because he didn't care etc etc. Anyway when he came back he called me, I was a bit reluctant to answer because I thought if he really cared then he would have contacted me whilst in Amsterdam. I answered the phone and he explained that everyone that he went with left their phones at home because of the cost, and he didn't remember my number to call me from a payphone.

Maybe your boyfriend hasn't been able to get to a place with the internet, you know what lad's are like they would get a ribbing from their mates if they admitted that they were just going off to find an internet cafe to email their girlfriend!
I wouldn't worry, I'm sure that he will come back with a nice present for you!

[discoinferno]

yay he emailed me last night - worry over! thanks everyone for ur help
Disco x