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[essex bloke]

Hi guys
This is open to both sexes how do you feel about bum pinching ? is it harmless fun ?

[ummmm]

Only if the person doing the pinching is good looking. Otherwise it's a complete insult.

[4getmenot]

hate it hate it hate it, when I go out clubbing it makes me want to scream in fact once when me and my mate went out we were on the dance floor and a bloke grabbed her bum so she turned round and nipple twisted him

[ChuffingHell]

if you don't know the person doing it, I think its completely unacceptable.

If someone did that to me and I somehow managed to record it, as with the reporter last week, I'd report them for sure

Is it okay to pinch or grab anyone's anything??

[tiny e.a]

I hate it so much, it really angers me. If it's a male friend I can just about stand it but when it's a stranger I feel like spitting in their faces (and spitting disgusts me, that's how annoyed it makes me)

[Homer55]

Well i love it when a good looking girl pinches my arse,....not so much when its a guy though...........

[Octavius]

Dreadful. If you want someone�s attention, then just talk to them.

[smi_ffy]

There is nothing wrong with a*se pinching.

[laurence2]

i believe it is childish, pathetic, shallow minded, plus it borders on sexual assault.

[mccfluff]

guy tried to pinch my bum in the pub the other night, told him i'd bar him then kick him in the nuts, he got the message

[Shadow Man]

As I said in the news section, it is little more than loutish behaviour. However, there really is no need to make a song and dance about it if it happens.

If it is persistant pinching then whack the offender in the balls, but a one off is a fact of life.

[radiogaga]

any kind of groping/pinching/ kissing thats unwanted is horrible, ive been victim to them all in clubs. i have retaliated by shouting f*** off you ****.
have stood next to my boyfriend to show im taken and am not intrested, and have even slaped the perptrator.

[ummmm]

I think people need to chill

[whiskeysheri]

Hate it. I don't like being touched in any way by someone I don't know (no-one I do know would pinch me!).

I also hate blokes holding my hips as they squeeze past in a bar. I highly doubt they'd do it in Tesco!

[tiny e.a]

I think it's worse than loutish behaviour, I'm probably going to sound like a bit of a tw@t with what I'm about to say, but I feel stongly on the subject. I'm really not a girl who makes a song and dance about things, I mostly don't let myself get het up about things, but someone touching me without my permission in a place that I consider out of bounds makes my skin cruel. It's completely disrespectful and sometimes humiliating. It can ruin 5 minutes of my night out and that's 5 minutes too many! My bottom and my breasts are equally personal to me andin my mind pinching my bum is the same as groping my breasts, indecent, unacceptable and extremely rude.

[johnlambert]

as a bloke i would never touch a lady intimately without her permission, i find that sort of unwanted contact totaly unacceptable,

[radiogaga]

its a shame more men dont think like john lambert to be honest

[CushtyFred]

I do it to all the fat mingers to winde them up.

[radiogaga]

but thats the thing some guys think they have the RIGHT to touch, kiss, pinch. thats the problem.

[eyeshade]

if a girl walked up to a bloke and went for his todger and pinched it, would that be any different?

[laurence2]

radiogaga,

Its not that some guys think that they have the ''right'' to pinch someones bum, its that some guys do not have a conversation in them to chat that said person up, so they believe that pinching someones bum will be their way of saying i fancy you and i'm available.

Cushtyfred is a prime example of my first posting on here, i rest my case.