and because we're not sexist on AB oh no sirree....

[darth vader]

.....GIRLS: what do you prefer? Einstein? Arnold schwarzenegger? chippendale or chips and gravy?

[Lisa-Marie]

LOL strange question, er they arent exactly my cuppa tea so its gotta be chips n gravy for me!!!

[darth vader]

ha ha sorry my question was meant as a counter to your question i.e. what sort of bloke do you ladies on AB prefer? (brainy, brawny, well built, chubby checker)

[molly]

The eyes have it every time. They must be warm, honest, kindly and with laughter lines.

(Oh and a cute bum would be an added bonus.)

[Lisa-Marie]

I agree with molly, nice eyes. Nice smile, which means nice teeth, also they gotta have nice hair and dress sense. but most importantly they gotta make me laugh so obviously a really nice personality, they also gotta love music! as for body i dont really like muscles etc jus a nice wee bum and im happy ;o) not asking for much eh?...... and i wonder why im single? hmmmmm

[beenee]

ohkaaay... :)

should be attentive and responsive - there's nothing worse than a guy staring into space (albiet in the general direction of your eyes) while you're talking, waiting for a gap to start talking about himself.

should have the same sense of humour as me

should be good looking with lots of money and a flash car. (no, seriously! :)

[Lisa-Marie]

I actually dont think money and a car is the issue, as long as he's good to you whay would it matter? you dont want to rely on someone elses money, you want to be making your own.

[molly]

Ok, Darth, can you see yourself there anywhere?

[kags]

nice teeth nice teeth and more nice teeth.

[Greedyfly]

I like a good smile and someone who can make me laugh

[worder]

what's chips and gravy? folks, do not laugh at this moron's question, okay?

[Janetex]

Ugh, soggy chips. Einstein, he would make me laugh and be interesting.

[worder]

darth, i'll tell you what a woman wants: 1- Honesty from day one 2-Faithfullnes from day one 3-Not too fat, not too thin 4-Functional in bed, naturally functional, that is, whether he's young or old.No viagra, of course. No all nighters, get yourself a robot or somrthing else, quality of love is better than quantity of hours. 4a- A magic touch 5-Employed- a woman should never support a man no matter how good he is in anyone area. 6- A compatible sign( taurus, cancer, scorpio,capricorn, also leo, virgo, libra are good) 7-Legally available: never married,; divorced; legally separated. 8- Between 40 and 60 years old. 9- No addictions,: no drugs, no alcohol, no murderers, no ex-wife beaters, no thieves. 10- Must love both mother and father(parents must not be perfect for him to love them) This descibes the perfect man. The perfect man does not exist, so I'll keep on dreaming. If I find such a man, needless to say, I'll grab him with both hands and feet:) He probably exists in another world or has already resurrected. I tried to cover as many areas as I could.

[beenee]

Just a clarifier - his money and car is very important: tells me he's ambitious and up for a good time.

Won't stop me from having my own riches though ;)

[apricot]

I was strongly attracted to my husband because he had a lovely hand to shake. Very large, dry, warm but not hot and he used to wrap his hand around my rather small hand and it felt wonderful. Just to explain, we belonged to the same tennis club and used to shake hands across the net. He also had a nice b*m.

[woofgang]

Someonw who looks me in the eye and not in the "ahem" chest, who treats me like a person and not a set of body parts, who expresses his admiration of those body parts to me and not his mates, who balances being protective with respecting my independence, who agrees with me about fifty percent of the time, who is funny, generous, gentle, tall dark and handsome......hang on a minute, I married him 30 years ago!!!

[darth vader]

thanks ladies. I wasn't particularly asking i just thought you should have your say too, following the earlier question.
"chips and gravy" as in he eats a lot of them (he's a bit porky)
Mrs Vader went for my eyes apparently
Worder: 1 yes 2 yes 3 yes, well maybe a bit porky 4 yes (Mrs Vader will confirm :-) 4a yes (ditto 4) 5 yes 6 i'm scorpio 7 sorree - Mrs Vader already! 8 err not quite (33) 9 yes, i mean no i have none 10 yes. I make that 7.5 out of 10? thanks folks for your responses, 3 stars all round

[TRINITY]

Gotta be Einstein, I much prefer brains over balls ;.)

[sarah123]

There's no way I could fancy a stupid man, not even for a one night fling. Not even if he looked like a Greek god. No way.

[coggles]

I couldn't think of anything worse than getting down to business with a Chippendale/Bodybuilder type all muscle and shaved bodies, yuk. The first time I saw my husband, the attraction was instant. He had taken a few days off work to decorate and had a stubbly beard. When he came over and we chatted, it was his sense of humour, intelligence, similar musical taste, he was well travelled, seemed kind but with a hint of naughtiness about him too. Oh, and the fact that he asked me if he could buy me a drink had nothing to do with it!