Men...

[shk]

What do men want out of a relationship? Tried marriage, tried long-term, tried weekend relarionships but none of these fit, is this my fault for having high expectations or being a psycho woman, just want companionship and fun... why do men have such hang ups and end relationships so horribly???

[dot.hawkes]

because
1) they cannot plan anything beyond 24 hours.
2) they think foreplay is the kick about b4 the FA cup
3) they think window shopping is ringing safestyle UK and saying BOGOF.
4) they think any fit bloke on TV is a real threat.
5) they only know songs by rock bands with dirty hair and drug problems.
6) they wear jeans that don't fit their arses
7) they think the barbers is psh of it has a washbasin
8) they think the daily sport is too wordy
9) they think they can take you out for the night and then keep you in for 20 years
1200) they want you to be like mum

[legend758duo]

ill gladly answer this .
as last night a similar post of mine was slated by ^^^ then abruptly removed .
hmmmmmm
men dont have hangups i think that you might have met thre wrong guys.
personally i question the sense in relationships that demand commitment from one or both people.
i think that in a short life we waste a lot of time stuck in unhappy relationships .
some can admit this others just carry on regardless.

[Petal~flower]

Men get comfy in a relationship, and then think, that maybe the grass is greener elsewhere. They blame women if the relationship goes wrong, and then they go off and shag away to their hearts content

[legend758duo]

petal

sorry


WRONG ANSWER ...........................

[Petal~flower]

Why was it the wrong answer Legend.

[legend758duo]

a sweeping generalisation.


thats why

[Petal~flower]

Doubt it

[legend758duo]

single are we??

aint gonna get a guy thinking like that.

if you want one that is ??????

[Petal~flower]

well shk asked a question, and I said what I thought. Should I of put that all men are great, and its up women who mess relationships up. Guess that would of made you happy legend

[Petal~flower]

*us*

[legend758duo]

no
thats a sweeping generalisation too.

a sensible unbaised answer would suffice petal : - )

[Silversky]

I'm gonna be hated by all woman-kind now, But I agree with legend.
You just meet different guys, some are like that some are not. And women have types they fall for, and if they're commitment phobics, then you're gonna build up ideas that all men are like this and therefore, this is how stereotypes are created.
It's the same with women really, people who wanna sleep around and experience everything (so to speak.) And others seem to have found 'the one' and just settle down instantly.
(and yes, for the record. I am one of the latter)

[legend758duo]

wise words for a youngster silversky.




good luck.

[Silversky]

You're the second person to say that on here in the past 20 minutes. tehe.

[legend758duo]

wise words from an old gimp then eh ???

[Petal~flower]

Legend, you said that men dont have hangups. Is that not a generalisation then?

[shk]

sorry to have caused warfare here but I think Dot generally has it summed up but I do agree that women are drawn to the same types so it is unfair to generalise. Not dissing men just feeling mistreated!

[legend758duo]

dot right ??????

you been on the home brew???


last time dot was right she told walter raleigh the spanish armada were coming in 1588


since then she aint been right lmao lol

[legend758duo]

m en might not have hangups


but i never said they were perfect either.

now did i ????

[Silversky]

But I doubt you see all these problems until you come to the end of the relationship?
To be honest my boyfriend is absolutely nothing like that. Apart from 1,4 and 5 maybe. hehe.