Cheating hearts

[ab_user]

I have been 'helping' a few friends out recently, by seeing whether their husbands are being faithful or not. All this involves is arranging to be at the same bar as these men, catching their attention, flirting with them and seeing how far they will take things. It is similar to a honey trap except I do not get paid to do this, I have done this as a favour for some insecure friends. Apart from some harmless flirting, the men have mostly appeared to be faithful. One of my friends from uni has been having some problems with her boyfriend, she asked if I would 'do my thing' and see if she was playing around. Everything was set up, I was in the bar when her boyfriend arrived and HE WAS GORGEOUS. We spent the night catching glances at each other, until her finally approached me and offered to buy me a drink, I accepted and we spent the rest of the evening drinking together, I was feeling pretty hot by the end of the evening and decided to take him up on his offer of sex. It was amazing. The following day I had to report back to my friend and I told her that he was 'faithful' and that she had nothing to worry about, the problem now though is that we have continued to see each other and meet up weekly. I feel bad as my friend now thinks things are great between her and her boyfriend now she thinks he is faithful? Should I tell her that I have caught him cheating so that she will finish with him? Or shall I just carry on with this?

[caz247]

how long have you been doing your honeytrap
thing and how many so called friends partners
have you checked out

[dot.hawkes]

deffo a wind up, take it all as rubbish and leave this thread alone it is a waste of time

[redcrx]

how come you didnt know he was gorgeous?

[Rubyrose]

Also........... You say you are not in love with this guy and it's 'just sex'...... If it was love then maybe I would have started to give advice and not think of you as such a bad friend but to sleep with him for the sake of sleeping with him and then pretend to be all worried about your friend? Yeah right!!!! That's like me saying I give a sh!t about pig being slaughtered while I eat a bacon sandwich... doesn't really make it that believable does it!

Grow up!

[Octavius]

Of course this is not a genuine Q. Far too elaborate (and dare I say topical) a story to be anything other than a wind up. Honey traps, friends with gorgeous boyfriends that he/she has never met, sex on a first date, STDs, pregnancy, abortion, youth of today blah blah blah.

[caz247]

mmmmmmm you decided to take him up on
his offer for sex !!!!!!!!! explain exactly then what favour
are you doing these insecure friends
pull the other one or as us glasweegans would
say fcuk off who are you kidding

[ab_user]

Lets get some things straight here ok. The reason I didn�t know he was gorgeous is because I had never met him previous to the night in question. If you see my earlier response you will see that. I have never done anything like this before, I have done this set up in the past to help friends out and have always taken great pleasure in being able to tell them their husbands/partners etc were faithful. I didn�t mean to say it was just sex, what I meant to imply was that I do not love him so it can�t be anything more than sex right? Please don�t all jump on the bandwagon trying to set the world to rights.

[Octavius]

So how did you recognise him?
Was he wearing a pink carnation?
From your posts I am guessing you are male right?

[ab_user]

Bo I am female. I thought that was obvious!

[4gottenabout]

yes you have said you had never met him but how did you know it was him to trap, she must have shown you a pic so you didnt just go up to any bloke. Did you ever Think that at some point you might have to say they�d been unfaithful. If you thought you�d never have to say it what was point in doing it. and you dont love him, he doesnt love you, so why carry it on?? Get your own bloke

[redcrx]

how do you know youve even slept with the right bloke?

[dot.hawkes]

blah blah (watched too much tele) blah blah, try a real question next time

[ab_user]

I had seen a photo, and could tell he was nice, but not a nice as he is in the flesh. Also, I would have had no problem telling other friends about there husbands infedelity, it would only have ever gone as far as a kiss anyway and that would have been that. I couldn't and still cannot help myself with this guy though.

[Rubyrose]

You know what, go and f*ck his brains out and see if I care!
You claim to give two hoots about your friend but clearly not! You'd stop right now if you did... no, wait... you wouldn't have done it in the first place!

I don't believe this to be a real Q at all... for 2 reasons... the lack of detail for one... and the fact that there is no emotion shining through in your words! So vague, so scripted! Boooring!

[4gottenabout]

Where did your earlier post go about not knowing him? Anyway we have all given our opinion on what you should do. What do you think you should do? Is she that much of a friend that you will stop seeing the bloke and move on. Doubt it if you did it to her in first place

[4gottenabout]

so you take great pleasure for helping them and trying to pull their husbands. Nice. Its kind of like that advert how do sleep at night..

[ab_user]

If you would all step down from your high horse and stop judging me! You don�t know me, not one of you know me. Yes, I have made a mistake, but I am not the only one, everyone makes mistakes and I feel that asking this question on here I am taking the first step to try and rectify my mistake.

[ab_user]

4gottenabout, you were actually quite pleasant to me when I first started posting? What�s happened? It�s like you are being purposefully nasty to impress you friends??

[dot.hawkes]

no your not you are just basking in the fun of it all. what a load of crap. You are asking us to believe that you know people who would ask you to do this, you are living in a fantasy or actually no, you are just making it all up. dare you to come clean and admit your real ab id, go on i dare you, it would be funny at this point, another few defensive posts and it would just be pathetic

[ab_user]

I have absolutley NO idea what you are talking about!!!!!!!!!!!!!