Cheating or am I over reacting???

[XxkelxX]

My bf and I have been going out for about a month now and we are really close but recently he keeps leavin in the middle of our dates and keeps getting phone calls from number withheld the worst thing is that we went to the movies for my birthday and that number witheld person called inthe middle of the film and he just up and left without even saying goodbye.I really love him and hes really sweet most of the time but i just dont know if i can put up with this anymore please help!!!!

[jamesisgod]

Definately a cheat! Dump him! Report him to the DSS and get will rid! BENEFIT CHEAT!!!!

[redcrx]

how come youve put up with that for 4 weeks?
get rid

[Corrinne74]

He sounds like a keeper.

[Champagne]

Do it back to him.

Arrange to meet him one night this weekend with absolutely no intention of turning up! Go out with your friends instead. Don't accept his calls or anything.

Then the next day send him a text saying, "I've met somebody else. Good luck with wotserface. - Kel"

Get in there before he does it to you! x

[mycats]

He is obviously cheating dump him, at least you have only known him about 5 minutes, no big investment

[CheekyChops]

He would only have to leave in the middle of one date with me because there wouldn't be any more after that! Only a complete git would get up and leave in the middle of a film and not even say anything!

You've only been seeing him a month, you can't love him, you don't know him. GET RID!!!

[Octavius]

Of course you can�t put up with this any more. Posting on Answerbank Body & Soul is the last resort for many people. By this time, they are usually at the end of their tether and the future is bleak. I can sense that you have arrived.

From what I have seen of your username and the structural elegant prose of your question, you deserve better. End the relationship now. Go on, phone him and tell him it is over.

[Champagne]

Whatever the reason for him getting up and leaving you mid-date, it's unnacceptable.

Is he into drugs? Or other dodgy dealings? Just seems a bit too blatant for me. If he is cheating on you then I can't believe you're sitting back and accepting this.

[natalie_1982]

If you've only been together a month, is it possible he already had a long term girlfriend and is cheating on her with you? Has he ever given you any explainations as to why he ups and leaves?

Get rid!

[Reverandfunk]

How stupid are you?

can you lend me �100.00 please lol

[niki2002]

Personally I dont think this is the actions of a cheat.

I agree with Champagne, I think he is up to no good drug dealing etc.

If he was cheating why would the calls be from a witheld number all the time. Surely the other "woman" if there was one wouldn't know about you so no reason to withold the number.

I think that you have been with this guy for a month and he is already treating you like something he trod in, so get out now, it can will only carry on getting worse otherwise.

[XxkelxX]

Thank you everyone for your answers I did finally end it with him and at just the right time he was arrested for drug use and dealing so you guys just saved me from alot of trouble!!!!!