hi all! my first time on here !

[scorps282]

i have been visiting this site for a while now and have decided i want to join in ! need to know,what to do when the world seems against you ??? having a rough time and need to move on,but finding it very hard !!!!!!!!!

[laurence2]

Your have to be abit more elaborate than that ie family, work, relationship, financial problem etc

[ab_user]

Hi there scorps, welcome! :) I'm fairly new too.
You hit the nail on the head in your question, the world may SEEM to be against you but I bet it's not. It's hard to say without knowing the details but things do always seem worse than they are and there is light at the end of the tunnell for you. I find coming on here and spouting off helps me if I'm feeling glum :) x

[bodylice]

Most people on here aren't the full shilling.

[ab_user]

That is very true! but it helps all the same :)

[scorps282]

sorry ! to elaborate , i am just out of relationship and finding it very difficult to cope with !!! missing all things that family life brings !!! i am feeling very alone and i miss the kids !!!

[laurence2]

Miss the kids?


Are you not allowed to see them then, or is it the everyday things of family life your missing.

Why the split if you don't mind me asking

[scorps282]

thanx for the nice welcome ab_user !!! laurence2 i can see the kids but miss putting the young one to bed and seeing his smile when i got in !!!

[theonlyone]

Hi Ruskie ,now back again under another alias !!!

[ab_user]

Why can people not take things at face value? this user has come on here telling people she/he(?) is feeling down and you assume its a joke. Give people a break will you???

[theonlyone]

Why not give others a break from your lies ?? There are
people on here who believe what you say and post thinking that you are genuine .

[scorps282]

hi ab_user !!!! im a he !!! how about you ???

[ab_user]

scorps, ignore the idiots on here, they have nothing better to do than cause trouble. I'm a she :)

[whiffey]

theonlyone, AB can be proud of you and the welcome you give to new people. They are not the problem, you are. Keep your finger on the Report button, and report back to your mates on MSN.

[scorps282]

thought so ab_user !!! hi !! again !! :-) and thanx !!!

[ab_user]

you're welcome scorps, I hope you manage to feel better :) :)

and whiffey, I wouldn't waste your time they are beyond help! :)

[fluffymuff]

welcome scorps hope you enjoy the site hope you enjoy your time here, we all have to move on in life hope you can

[sallywebb]

What to do ? well rebuild your life,start again, and ask yourself why the relationship finished, not all the other sides fault is it or are you completely innocent ?

if you are like my ex, i finished it because he was abusive and hit me, best thing I ever did was to get rid of him,

I wish you a happy future, but please think about why it ended. sally xx

[mustardchops]

I agree with sallyweb. Relationships end for a reason, usually a good one. Were you happy or was it expected? I suppose if you were happy then it is harder to take but was it really happy?

How old are your kids? They will give you the strength you need to get through this, move on, and eventually find hapiness through another means. As one door closes another one always opens.

I know it must be difficult for you but it will get easier, i know that for sure. been there, done it and got the T shirt.


I wish you happiness in the future. It will get better.

[Doc Spock]

All very confusing.