Fab sex or comfy slippers ?

[dopeybint]

Which is best ? Split up with Mr. Dopey and been having a relationship with a gorgeous bloke,sex superb,but he is'nt available ( very wrong i know ) So now i'm yearning for me ex a little bit ,although our marriage was crap ( he had no respect for me )
What am I really feeling do you think, am so confused x

[cheries]

They're a waste of time Rev :o(

[Reverandfunk]

You must look at the big picture...

[cheries]

I am looking at it from a different angle to you.

[Octavius]

Surely having an affair with a man means that he is available (for affairs). The unavailable ones are not interested in a seedy bi-weekly fumble in the back seat of a Ford Sierra and truly cherish their existing partners. Or is the definition of unavailable, one that is happy to share the love between several partners?

So this fab sex man is obviously available, but not available enough for you. Which says a lot don�t it?! Seems he is pretty much treating you and his missus as �lovingly� as your husband treated you.

[Doc Spock]

This reminds me of a sailor in a pub wearing fancy slippers. A woman asks where he got them , reply, Tangiers.

She says you can have sex with me if you give me your slippers, but I won't enjoy it.

Back at her flat she is lying on her back not moving a muscle as he does the business. All of a sudden her legs and arms are flung round him and she starts writhing.



He said " I thought you were'nt going to enjoy this. She replied " I am not, i'm just trying your slippers on"

[jodie73]

Octavius! You try explaining that to his wife who's probably at home looking after their kids while he's in dopeybints bed!!!

[Octavius]

Well that�s kinda my point jodie.

I fancy the espadrilles off China Doll, and would probably enjoy a bit of horizontal clog dancing with her. But I am �unavailable� in the sense that it aint gonna happen, too much luurve for Mrs Octavius and Mini Octavius, and the prospect of a scary divorce settlement, and no nadgers either!

[legend758duo]

doc very like an experience i once had.

only she didnt try the slippers on !!!



anyway.
well great name.
messin about with anotherwomans man?

passe for ab really.

i prefer fab slippers n comfy sex.
because as time goes on sex becomes more comfy than fab .
as does anything if you do it to excess.


miss ur ex?
go get him back.
he might have a new burd.
wont bother you.
and im sure he will lap it up

[jodie73]

Good Boy!! That's nice to hear. You stay away from that China Doll!

[legend758duo]

not me

im up for a bit of her lol : - )

[unrulyjulie]

i do have to say jodie, there are always two sides to every story.
I can sympathise with a man who stays with a woman who he doesnt love and who doesnt love him for the sake of the kids, although its not something i agree with.

As a woman it is easier to remove yourself from a mariage that is bad because on the whole you get to keep the kids. I feel for fellas who have to loose their kids as well as their wife. I can unsderstand any who fall into this sort of situation. Not all is black and white.

[Katie~77]

Slippers!x

[jodie73]

They could at least finish their marriage first before they start cheating and lying!! If they are not happy with their wife anymore then get out!

[unrulyjulie]

that was my point though jodie, not always simple if you are gonna loose your kids. men always get a raw deal when it comes to a marriage split. family and financial.Thats why i say its not all black and white.

I have just ended my marriage but if it had meant not seeing my kids every day, no way could i have done it. Im just seeing it from a mans point of view but saying that, that is if he is in love with dopey, if hes just having sex for sex sake then its wrong !!!!

I guess some men love their kids too much to risk leaving them !

[legend758duo]

have to disagree jules


playin around is still wrong


no matter what.

its only decent to finish things .

you cant stay together for the kids

[jodie73]

With women like dopeybint around then no-ones safe!! A lot of men go with a bit of rough to boost their ego. I know what your saying Julie but it don't make it right.x

[legend758duo]

bad enough the temptations without folk actively trying to get men that are taken

[Katie~77]

I don't know why some women go looking for married men. I've got one and I'm not overly impressed!!!!x

[jodie73]

LOL Katie!x

[unrulyjulie]

pmsl katie!!!! ive got rid of two now so im inclined to agree there

i know you dont agree with me leggie, that would be a first lol

still think there is always more to a situation. If only life was so simple!