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Id thought of asking if they had been "diagnosed" with a heart problem, but sometimes people arent actually diagnosed - for example, they might have had chest pains for months, but never been to hospital about it, or the dr's at hospital dont know whats caused it, they might have had a heart murmer or something similar when they were a kid, but as they never saw it as a serious problem, dont concider it something that was "diagnosed" - its always tricky! bearing in mind im speaking to these people at stressful times, so answers and questions are always going to get muddled. they just want their friend or relative treated, not to be asked 20 questions! lol :P i dont blame them!