is my b/f a pervert

[jil1986]

my b/f likes to egetulate over my feet is this normal. he likes my to wear stocking and paint my toenails and wear strapy shoes which can be a pain cleaning afterwards. He enjoys this more than coming inside me or anything else. I dont mind really but wondered if this was normal. thanks.

[becks]

Are you serious?? Cos if it's a joke it's really not funny. Sounds like he has a foot fetish to me which isn't abnormal or anything. Nothing would make me let my other half do that to my shoes tho - yuk!! Don't think you have to worry about him being a pervert - if it doens't bother you and he likes it why not?

[andy hughes]

What is defined as 'normal' is a difficult concept to pin down. In the strict sense of the word, the 'norm' means practicing things which are done by the majority, but in modern language, the term 'normal' has other conotations - as in your question. So, in the strict meaning of the word, your boyfriend's minority taste is not 'normal' but it is not uncommon. If he enjoys it, and you don;t mind, I wouldn't worry too much - after all, it's not like you're going to take a straw poll among your friends is it? The least he can do is stump up for some new shoes and nail varnish on a regular basis!

[Strawblonde]

Probably not - however there maybe more below the surface; he may want to do the same with full role reversal or with admirers. You need to find out if you are satisfying a need or encouraging further frustration????

[number8]

I'm a sad fu*ker - have just spent the last few mins mins trying to find what "egetulate" means.........then realised.

[smudge]

Well you're not alone then scubaboy! Also, if this is a genuine question from a female, surely she must realise that her b/f plainly doesn't want her to get pregnant!

[inferno]

ejaculate

[smudge]

Yes inferno, we got the message!

[BenDToy]

And not only that, you have to clean up after him!

[TheFaerie]

No....?!?!?!!

[tartanwiz]

What exactly is a pervert? At one time gay men and women were regarded as perverts, nowadays they're encouraged to 'come out', so why shouldn't foot fetishists like your boyfriend 'come out' and declare their sexual orientation. As for being 'normal'?, well I am heterosexual and have 'normal' or 'proper' sex, but I am excited by the sight of things like stockings and legs and high heels so I don't see what's odd or weird about it.

[Casey]

I would have a word with your b/f and find out what it is exactly that turns him on by doing this. Fair enough everyones has their fantasies, but in my opinion to be doing it all the time would be a bit much. Tell him you wouldn't mind trying other things aswell, this way it will keep things exciting. Otherwise you will end up getting pi**ed off keep cleaning your shoes! (Well I know I would)Is there anything you would like to try? Try telling him what you want to do for a change.

[Philtaz]

LMAO at scubaboy!