pregnant

[george117]

i know this is a stupid question but can you get pregnant on the day after the last day of your period?

[mrs_overall]

Yes it is possible

[george117]

how possible though

[yogasun]

Yes, but the chances are pretty slim - good news or bad news?! Egg is usually released mid cycle but there can be blips.

[mrs_overall]

Everyone's fertile window is different. On AVERAGE it is usually approx 10 days after the starting day of your period, but it can be earlier or it can be later than this.

[george117]

oh. it would be bad news lol. its just a mistake was made and im hoping that because of the time of my menstrual cycle it was made then maybe i will be fine. but unfortunatly obviously wont be able to check yet

[mrs_overall]

Sorry, that should read 10 to 14 days...

[george117]

oh. hope ill be ok then. a test wouldnt work this early would it?

[foodluva]

It's unlikely but sperm can actually survive inside you for up to 10 days which depending on your usual ovulation period, could take you into the danger zone. However, as said, this is unlikely (but possible!)

[george117]

i feel weird down there but maybe its just because im worrying

[sausagechips]

when was this?
why don't you go to the chemist and take the morning after pill....if you are within 2 days of sex?
You should be ok, but is best to be safe than sorry.

[george117]

it was saturday and i dont have the money to. will just have to wait i suppose. thanks anyway

[sausagechips]

go to a & e this afternoon and it is free! or to your doctors!
i have taken it once and I didnt have to pay.
You should get yourself checked out for STD's too.

[redcrx]

I hate to break it to you but babies cost a bit more than a morning after pill. Get an emergency appt at your GP or family planning clinic and ask for the morning after pill.

There is no safe day on your cycle for having unprotected sex. Not only are you unprotected from pregnancy but also from STD. Whilst at your GP of FPC ask for advice on reliabel forms of contraception and also pick up some free condoms

[natalie_1982]

You really shouldn't hedge your bets on it probably being ok, just because you can't fork out �20. Get to your GP, family planning clinic or local hospital.

[george117]

i know i need to but i dont know how im gonna get there. iv actually just begun taking the pill. I was drunk and he was sober. he did it and then told me after he had cummed in me so really he should pay for it. will check for STIs too.

[redcrx]

when did you just start taking the pill? have you been taking it according to instructions or had you missed some. You should always use condoms also as the pill is not a barrier.

call a friend, ask for a lift, or borrow some money and go to chemists!

[sausagechips]

How old are you hun?
i really think that the best bet is to go to your doctors.
Even if it is too late for the mornign after pill he will be able to test for STD and for pregnancy. and if the worst comes to the worst and you are pregnant he will be able to advise you on what to do next. As it is necessary to stop un-wanted pregnancy's as early as possible.

Also even if a man does not 'come in you' semen may leak out before he ejaculates which can also cause you to become pregnant.

[natalie_1982]

I'd also be pretty concerned about the fact that you were obviously so drunk you didn't notice that he had not pulled out. Don't quibble about who is liable to pay for the morning after pill, he should not have taken advantage of you in that way if he was sobre and you were drunk, just learn your lesson and don't let a man do that to you again and for Christ sake get to your GP or family planning centre.