Her rudeness is definately justification, as she completely dismissed your gift and indeed you. She obviously takes you for granted. Apart from the sentiment, what about the cost involved. If she can't appreciate YOU and your thoughtfulness then she should at least have some tact due to the cost of sending flowers on V day. In my opinion she doesn't deserve you or your time, but I can only go by what I have read and this one incident, I do not know how the past year has been and I wouldn't like to insfluence something that you may later regret. Maybe you need to talk to her, tell her how you feel and see what she says. Maybe she feels it is 'cool' to act like this - there is alot of pressure on young people today.