My pal has been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for almost 1 year. She's fallen in love with this guy and he tells her he loves her. She asked him the other day if he is IN love with her, and he said that is a diffcult question to ask any guy but couldn't/wouldn't elaborate why that was a difficult question.
Is this a difficult question for you guys? Why?
If it's not such a difficult question, then is he just fobbing her off (keeping her sweet?) with telling her that he loves her so that he can continue to have regular sex with her?