Shy gal

[giggles!]

I really dont get along with this girl in 1 of my classes at skool but shes de only girl in this class besides me. I jus cant tink of any thing 2 say 2 her just coz shes more popular than me and all the guys love her. wat can I do? P.s Its not possible 2 switch classes- I just want 2 b friends with her and the guys im just 2 shy with them though coz dey all love eachother and im de outcast. plz help!

[secretspirit]

Even though you find her intimidating why don't you try asking her about herself and see if you can make friends with her that way. Most people love talking about themselves (whether they admit it or not) so be a good listener and you'll probably find you end up chatting and becoming mates.

[giggles!]

Tnx so much secretspirit! Ill try u'r advice on her i'd say she'll luv talkin all about her!

[Toffee]

Hell! Is this the common language that divides us? I don't recognise it. Can the filter help, please?

[Amster222]

Well I know what you're going through! First off don't let them know you're scared of them! I'm in highschool, and it's all about power over other people to make themselves feel better! You should'nt care what people think about you. Remember all you need is one person who truely cares in the whole world! But why don't you just swallow your fears and walk up to her and say "Hey what's up?" Or if you're too scared to so that then be like "Oh I like your ... " that should break the ice. Then if she's like "Thanks...." then strike up so conversation from that.

[Yinzer]

I agree with what secretspirit said. There's a saying that you'll make fewer friends in two years by trying to get people interested in you than in one day by taking interest in other people. : )