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Any one on Ab a Carer ..
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I'm one and now finding it hard work ...
always tired and stressed ...
always tired and stressed ...
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I used to see a woman who was a carer. I do have a clue. I know it can be hard work. But her problem was that she was depressed rather than stressed.
If you cant cope you really should see if you can get someone else to look after your friend and you concentrate on looking after your hubby.
there are people out there who offer support.
I used to see a woman who was a carer. I do have a clue. I know it can be hard work. But her problem was that she was depressed rather than stressed.
If you cant cope you really should see if you can get someone else to look after your friend and you concentrate on looking after your hubby.
there are people out there who offer support.
I used to be one. Contact your council and find out about respite care. Every couple of months my charge went away for a wekend. At first I planned so much, to sort out my wardrobe, line kitchen cupboards even go into town...the first couple of tmes not having to get up to do the toilet/showering was nice, and I found I slept...and slept and slept, re-charging my own batteries
If respite isn't available to you, then try and contact one of the charities that help, eg: Macmillan nurses. Good luck
If respite isn't available to you, then try and contact one of the charities that help, eg: Macmillan nurses. Good luck
Hmmm, i can see you are very stressed. Its not me you should be taking your stress out on, but i hope its helping you getting it all out in the open.
It sees your taking too much on. i dont understand why you are in a job if you cant cope. Like i said, prioritise and care for your hubby, and get someone else to either care for your friend or help out. have you no family who could help out.
Even a little help would go along way...
It sees your taking too much on. i dont understand why you are in a job if you cant cope. Like i said, prioritise and care for your hubby, and get someone else to either care for your friend or help out. have you no family who could help out.
Even a little help would go along way...
Its not something i would do. I have no patience.
Its more suitable to women as they have a more caring side to them.
I never once said that it was easy. All i am saying is, maybe your taking too much on. Its ok coming on here whimpering about how difficult it is, but i am sure there is help out there for you.
The thing is, you need to ask for help. Gone are the days when people offer to help you. Its a nasty world out there, full of nasty people...
Its more suitable to women as they have a more caring side to them.
I never once said that it was easy. All i am saying is, maybe your taking too much on. Its ok coming on here whimpering about how difficult it is, but i am sure there is help out there for you.
The thing is, you need to ask for help. Gone are the days when people offer to help you. Its a nasty world out there, full of nasty people...