he wont open up

[Princess18AR]

There is this guy i met a few weeks ago, and i really like him. But im not sure how he really feels. We talk everyday...sometimes three times. he wont open up and really let me know. he says he likes me, but i wanna know more. what should i do? what do u think?

[Wisebird]

Princess, open up to him. Tell him how much you like him. He's probably really, really, shy. Boys can be even less confident than girls. He must really like you otherwise why would you be talking three times a day. Good luck!

[Robinia]

After only a few weeks what more exactly do you need to know? Try not to put the emotional pressure on & just keep the chat light for a while. Ask him lots of trivial questions about himself, make jokes - tease him if he's the sort who can take it. Sooner or later, when his confidence grows he will start to give more away. Trust me (I'm very old!), the phrase more people than I can remember have said to me is 'Why am I telling you all this?' And I take it as a massive compliment!

[Wisebird]

Hey Methusala (noddy) are you even older than Smudge and I. We have given our ages away on other threads! Your advice to Princess is very good. I also seem to be everybody's Auntie Annie, especially at work!

[Nala]

give him an ultimatum, but in a nice way. if he's he's been talking to you for a few weeks, everyday, sounds like lurve 2 me! or ask him out for a drink of coffe and see where things go from there. If he likes you, you'll know about it. it's easy to hide your feelings over the phone but not so easy in person. and trust me, guys don't do subtlety very well so tell him in a way he won't be able to misconstrue. good luck babe. xxxx

[Robinia]

I'll give you Methusala Anniekon! :) I get that from my sons, they think my first cookery lesson was scrambled pterodactyl egg. (whispers...I'm 50) Nala giving people ultimatums very rarely, if ever, works. For heavens sake why risk ruining what could, given time, become a serious relationship. A few weeks chatting does not necessarily mean love but often love does grow from a good friendship. Take your time Princess!

[Wisebird]

Noddy, you're a mere young girlie compared with me! (whisper back 57)

[Wisebird]

Smudge, I have now given your age away! Please do not report me to the editor.x

[gurl101]

time....time will give u the answer unlese u want to be the bold ballsy girl who isnt afraid and ask him how he feels