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Lack of confidence
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I am 20 and lack confidence. How can I get some and quick? People say I will get more confident with age but I feel I should be more confident now. Like in my work as administrator I am sometimes too self concious to phone people and this stops me getting my work done.
I have been doing this job for 4 years and don't feel like I have gained much confidence at all. Anyone else in the same boat or can anyone reassure me. Many thanks
I have been doing this job for 4 years and don't feel like I have gained much confidence at all. Anyone else in the same boat or can anyone reassure me. Many thanks
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So forgetmenot did you just get more confident with age then or is there another trick?
The people I speak to on the other end of the phone never seem unconfident. Sometimes they are even really chatty and I hate this as I'm too unconfident and self concious to chat back.
It seems that some people overcome this problem easier than others.
The people I speak to on the other end of the phone never seem unconfident. Sometimes they are even really chatty and I hate this as I'm too unconfident and self concious to chat back.
It seems that some people overcome this problem easier than others.
I think with age I spose and practice on the phones. when I first started I was terrified of it, but I do it that often now I dont even think about it, soph I really feel that you will benefit from some sort of group like a self confidence group or hypnopherapy (my friend had it done before she had to do a big speech) and tazz as you seem to think you know what it is that changed you I'm glad you have decided you need to see a counseller, We can all tell you what to do but you need to help yourself. xx