comfort or looks

[tazz]

what do u wear your clothes 4 comfort or looks?

[Lakitu]

Both

[bensmum]

Comfort first - if something makes the wearer uncomfortable then it won't look that good.

[Lakitu]

Unless I'm sitting at home when I wear pink jammy bottoms, a vest top and slipper socks - not a good look but I'm not going nowhere and nobody is any the wiser.

[Sir Alec]

Comfort every time. I live in a rural area and need good shoes. I've met so many people with deformed feet from years of cramming them into fashionable shoes with pointed toes and impossibly high heels which throw your hips forward and give you problems with arthritis in leg joints in later life! Sorry to be so practical, wear fashion when it's appropriate, but not all the time.

[tazz]

yes thats what i think sir alec. im a mum of 2 n when i wear my comfy clothes n go take kids to nursery i feel a tramp as there all dressed up but to stay at home. i then worry my partner will find me unattrative when he comes home from work. i dont feel very confident about myself either

[Lakitu]

What exactly is it you wear when you're taking the kids to school?

Has your partner indicated that he doesn't find you attractive anymore?

[tazz]

i used to wear my jeans n t shirt. he said once that my clothes looked old n then i found out he had a female friend that he said was a man. n now i have a rake of jeans but the ones i feel comfy in even if new i feel not good enough in. if i wear the uncomfy ones i feel more confident but then end up grumpy cos there so uncomfortbale. feel like im constantly stuck in a rut

[tazz]

thinking of sending my old jeans off n getting them clonned. do u think it`ll work?

[fenultimate]

1, Comfort
2, Cost
3, Looks don't matter because I'm plug-ugly in anything I wear!

[butterflies]

It doesn't matter what you wear, just make sure your hair's clean and brushed, add a bit of mascara and SMILE and say hello to the other mothers. I knew a woman who worked on a farm come pick her kids up in dungarees and wellies but she was just such a happy jolly person and had a word for eveyone we all liked her. Another mother all dressed up with her nose in the air got the elbow quick.

[tazz]

thanx all of u it has helped. im just a very shy person which dont help really.x

[oldgrape]

always comfort i am the biggest tom boy going but when i go out i am the only one out of all my mates who don't complain about my feet hurting so there are upsides lol

[tazz]

lol yeah lodgrape im a tomboy to. what kinda things do u wear?

[oldgrape]

jeans, trains and a t-shirt and if going out jeans smarter t-shirt and black leather plain flat shoes hey might not look like a girlie girl but it only takes me 5 mins to get ready and i have more fun as dont have to constantly check in the mirror and redo my make up and worry if people can see my knickers or if my tits have fallen out of my top lol