See what i mean? Well Lil my pet, she was a designer of very expensive underwear in the 1970's very, very expensive, but silk, french knickers. She started the business with nightwear, but then develped a range of underwear. Unfortunately the company went "bust" (pun not intended). All these basques, peep through bras, crutchless tights, fishnet stockings, condoms with clitoral ticklers are O.K, but a gentle, meaninful, fulfilling and appropriate love maker like "wot i am" is all you need.