Ex-boyfriend

[CAJ1]

Was going home last night when I saw my ex. He drove up the side of the car, saw it was me, swerved about on the road, braked, revved his engine at the traffic lights and finally drove off while waving his hand in a rude gesture towards me. What a dick. Why does he feel the need to be so mean and horrible to a girl just because she left him because he treated her like sh*t?

Below is a previous post about him:
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion565688.html

[Octavius]

Is he called Jason?

[MiniN]

wow, i read your other thread, sounds like a complete nutter!

perhaps with your history with him you should report his actions to the police so they have a record of it incase he does anything else?

[CAJ1]

No but I can think up several other names that he could be called Octavius!

[CAJ1]

Maybe I should MiniN. He is a nutter, I thought I was going to be sick last night I was that scared. Thoroughly fed up with it, I managed nearly a year with no bother from him and was getting on quite happily!

[karmgirl]

Sounds like you're well rid of him hun - well done for getting out of that relationship - you deserve much better x

Like someone else jsut said I would keep a record of his actions and report it all to the police. Maybe they can extend this molestation order thing?

Are your friends all aware not to give out any information about you or where you live?

[Octavius]

I know a couple of Jason�s who are both as mad as a sack full of angry ferrets.

Ah well, at least you are away from him now. Sounds like he was bearing his chest and pounding it with his fists in a vague attempt at masculinity, like King Kong. Instead he ends up looking like a drip with the mental analytical, reactionary and manual dexterity of a three armed orang-utan.

[karmgirl]

lol octavius

[y-cymro]

Report it to the police. All their recoreds are computerised now, and should something else happen (I really hope not) then all the incidents will be flagged up and will give the police a bigger picture of what's been going on.

If you know his car number, give them that, as any other reference to that car will also be brought up by their computer.

Don't just look at last night as a small one - off incident. Look at the bigger picture and report it just for your own peace of mind.

Take care

[4getmenot]

because he wants your attaention which he seems to have got. Dont pay another thought to him. Think about that suprise proposal your current bloke has for you :-)

[CAJ1]

I do deserve better and got better in my boyfriend I'm with now karmgirl. My friends know not to give him any details. They won't extend the order unless he does something to me first when it runs out.

Octavius - LMAO, thanks for cheering me up and making me laugh (again!)

y-cymro - I have no idea of his reg I just know the colour and make and model of his car. The police have me flagged up anyway and have to come out within 3 minutes if I phone them

4get - I was in such a good mood yesterday because of that and then I saw him and he upset me. Oh well, I am bigger and better than him so I will put it down to his immaturity and forget it :o)

[4getmenot]

thats always the way, I forget about my ex and then just when I;m really really happy he pops up.

[karmgirl]

Have you got one of those black boxes installed?

[CAJ1]

I know 4get! They certainly know how to pick their moments!

No karmgirl, I was offered panic alarms in every room of the house but all they do is set off an alarm it doesn't go through to the police. I do have one of those panic alarms that you can carry about with you though.

I think it was a one off, he saw me and thought he would use the chance to be a prat. I probably won't see him for another year now. I'm just annoyed at his attitude, he brought everything upon himself.

[karmgirl]

Yeah best try and forget about it then - my ex is the same - I'm just starting to feel happy and he sends me a text message asking to see me or tells me how much he misses me

Puts me in a crap mood for a day or so and then I forget and move on again. Take care xxx

[Octavius]

I think next time (if this should happen again) you should pretend not to even notice him. For you it would then be out of sight, out of mind. Although, to be fair, he would also be out of his mind and that would be a sight.

Best cure for those 'miss you', 'need to see you' texts is to get married.

[y-cymro]

The problem with bumping into him like this is that it could spark things off in his mind again.

It's a year since I saw my ex-girlfriend, but I know if I bump into her again, it will start her off trying to hound me, find out where I live etc. like it always has done in the past.

I hope that doesnn't happen, but a small thing like last night plays on the mind of nutters like that, so just be safe but also, dont worry about it too much, you've obviously got the experience to deal with it, and have done the right things in the past.

[Octavius]

I find that ^^^ with women in general, they all bump into me in the street and want to sexually harass me. Sometimes I don�t want to go home.

In all seriousness, cymro is right, he may well be festering up some potential activity towards you in his mind. Just be careful.

[MiniN]

I still say report it to the police to be on the safe side...what harm can it do?

[Octavius]

I don't see why you would, he was innocuously driving down a road that she just happened to be on at the same time. It does not appear to have been an intended liaison so effectively there would be no premeditated mal-intent.

The only outcome would be that the police would add a note to the file, or that he gets a visit and the anger is re-aroused.

[CAJ1]

I agree with you there Octavius. Having been to the police before on previous matters I know that this will be exactly what they will say!

I'll stay careful and if he does anything that is intentional I will report him and he will end up in court again if not jail.