sister trouble

[angryman2008]

my sister lives with her guy and he is more and more taking h er for granted, the thing is hes alot better connected arounhere than me and also i wouldnt want her in my dramas but i just cant bear to see her hurt. hes always seemed decent to me, but some of his mates are thugs. what do i do, how bad does it have to get b4 i step in, thing is i find it hard arguing my own case let alone other people's ta

[bednobs]

i have no idea why you would want to interfere. Your sister is presumably old enough to make her own decisions. Maybe she is happy being a doormat - what right have you to stick your nose in. Plus, how do you know?

[NiceCupOfTea]

Don't step in, just be there for her. I know it's a cliche, but it's true.

[Jafi]

You have to let your sister live her own life, she's the only one who can make the changes, she may even resent you for interfering in her private life.

The only thing you can do is be there for her, try not to be judgemental, as hard as that may seem, if your negative towards her partner, the only thing you may achieve is a wedge between her and yourself.