hi Sally, yeah.. that was the only thing I could think of but that was over a week ago, and other ABers backed me up. I thought the site would have the courtesy of mailing me to ask for my views, or at least to tell me I was banned/suspended. I was merrily posting away, when I realised that none of my posts were visible!
when you think of all the really offensive/silly stuff that is allowed to go on.....
I've mailed the site. maybe they'll reply some time :o)