Fat and Skinny

[Babii-Lj]

Im 16 and a size 8 in tops nd 10 in bottoms. ive just started to see this guy who is 18 and hes really sweet and absolutly gorgeous but i feel really fat compared to him as he is skinnier then me! how can i lose weight to feel better around him?

[dianew]

at a size 8 you don't need to lose weight

[daffy654]

You do not need to lose weight! Try finding a bloke who isn't so skinny instead,or just face the fact that not all men are huge muscly types.

[sara3]

you're the same size as me so be careful what you say!

you're a woman and you're shaped like a woman. this is what men like. if he wants a stick he can go to the park and find one. you certainly don't need to lose weight.

he might need to put a bit on, but don't mention it.. just see if he's eating properly.. and good luck :o)

[Bbbananas]

Lose weight? Don't be silly. There is no way you are fat, and this guy likes you just the way you are, obviously.

Don't even think about losing weight Babii.

[daffy654]

Sara,I think you have possibly misread the question.The poster says she is a size 8/10.Did you maybe think she was a size 16?

[sara3]

an 8-10 can still be woman shaped. you don't have to be curvy to be a woman! it can be far from anorexic. I'm 9st and I'm not skinny but I don't have a massive bust and I have slim hips.

[pips1]

I know you are only young but honestly this is ridiculous! You are a perfect size and should be very happy with yourself. He has chosen to go out with you as you are so be pleased and enjoy yourself instead of worrying. If he is a decent kid he would be horrified if he knew what you were thinking.

[daffy654]

I'm only a size 8 myself sara,its just that I have never ever heard anyone refer to women of our size as "woman shaped" before,we usually get called anorexic or stick thin.Sorry for misunderstanding your answer :-)

[Bbbananas]

Doc.Spock - that's shameful. And from a Doctor?!

[dianew]

babii have you mentioned anything to him about losing weight?

[sara3]

all I mean is, if she's eating properly she is probably her natural shape. she's 16 and shouldn't be obsessing about her weight. she may fill out a bit but this is what women tend to do. she's named the post "fat and skinny" and if she thinks that she is fat then there are bigger problems here.

anyways, it's a "greenie" question where the poster hasn't returned, so probably just playtime for someone.. but some sensible advice anyway :o)

[Babii-Lj]

no i havent spoken to him about it but it just bugs me abit nd makes me wonder if it bothers him at all but maybe i am over reacting. i just thing because my ex use to call me fat and joke to his friends it allways makes me wonder whats going to be on his mind

[sara3]

men and mind-games.. a whole new question!

but don't get hung up on your weight, it's fine :o)

[dianew]

i bet he thinks you are fine the way you are, you are not fat at size 8/10. as for your ex i would think he was just trying to put you, forget about his nasty comments, enjoy being who you are, iam sure you look great

[Bbbananas]

There's a reason your 'ex' is your ex then?
Let's hope this one turns out to be better...

[onlyme26]

do you know what? i used to feel like that, a very long time ago( your talking 10 years) my first b/f was skinny and i was around a size 10-12, but constantly tried to diet and loose weight all the time, i made my self ill constantly by doing this, i didnt get any support and ended up putting on weight!!! its only now im older i can eat properly, im 14-16 now, i havent managed to get the weight off but i feel more comfortable with myself now then i ever have before, i am pregnant at the mo, but after id like to maybe slim down to a size 12 but i aint gonna worry about it,

being healthy is more important then anything, please dont diet especially being a 8-10 already

you will find he will prob put a lot of weight and height etc on over the next few years!!

xx

[B00]

I dont understand to be honest. Surely your boyfriend likes you how you are or he wouldn't be going out with you?

[legendis.god]

Are you east european by any chance?
Maybe even russian ?




Btw id say somethings rotten in denmark.


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[catcuddler]

Babii i agree witth what others have said.size 10 bottom is a gr8 size.with all these size zero rubbish about try to remember your not like a stick but your slim and obviously attractive or this guy wouldnt be attracted to you.in my experience most men like a woman with a bit of a bottom and hips rather than ribs and hip bones jutting.he may just be naturally skinny some people can eat like a horse and still be like rakes.if and i strongly use the word if you feel your maybe not as toned as he is (which i doubt) maybe some light exercise would help but certainly not to loose weight.if you do decide to tone up do it for yourself and no one else.personally your figure sounds amazing and i am envious :-D
hope this helps