Is there something wrong with me ?

[Glidr]

I'm a 33 year old man who has been married for 5 years and I have two beautiful children. I told my wife I was sexually abused by another boy when I was eight years old.

The thing is, I've started to wear womens g-strings ( just the plain black ones, nothing frilly..lol )and womens tight jeans, I've also started to get into the " emo " look. I've had several piercings and died my hair black and had an " emo " hair cut.

My wife accepts all of these things ( except she won't let me wear the jeans outside ) which I understand as I don't want to embarrass her.

She asked me if I was gay, I told her no as I had a homosexual experience a few years ago as I thought I may have been, I did not enjoy this experience and I am in no way attracted to men.

For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am. I've heard that a lot of gay emo guys wear womens underwear and womens jeans.

I've been bullied and made to feel like a freak all of my life. I had very physically abusive mother and step father and at one point when I was 10 my mother put a knife to my throat. I guess what I want to know is, am I a freak or a pervert just because the clothes I wear are not " traditionally male " ?

[sara3]

I can't picture Gormless in a thong. this has spoiled my day.

[Glidr]

tamborine, thank you for that answer. It was one of the few that took my question seriously and had an intelligent answer.

Thanks for all of the responses.

[Glidr]

Gormless, Thank you so much, I feel a little better now.

[tamborine]

Having reached the stage where my children are secure & mature I can look back at how my life has been spent and my achievement through my children.

But now.....its just me, for me! I can indulge my fripperies - no holds barred - and have discovered Abers to have fun and cry with. It's a whole new family to me!

[tamborine]

Incidentally - what is an emo - it doesn't show on google?

[redcrx]

http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z274/britta ny7645/emo.jpg

[dot.hawkes]

what are 'bangs' are you American?

[tamborine]

thanx redcrx....I call that Gothic? I like the look. Dot can't find the 'bang' reference?

Womens jeans have bigger bum-cut then mens....I always wear mens jeans.....wonder what that makes me?

[dot.hawkes]

Glidr
Mon 23/02/09
10:21 Question Author

redcrx, I hate glamrock, besides my hair is short at the back and long at the front, my bangs are pretty long too. But no mate, I hate glam rock.

[tamborine]

bang.....term for fringe, Dot.

[redcrx]

tamborine. i think its the age, 30 somethings would call that gothic, the term emo has only really been used in the last 5 years it seems.

same look though, if you ask me

[pastafreak]

Errmm...if women can wear mens jeans..why can't men wear womans? Why is it freaky??
There are worse things in life to worry about-lol

[Verix]

Is it too much a leap to suggest you're simply TV (a transvestite)? Take a look at Eddie Izzard, is that the kind of thing you'd like to be doing, wearing make-up I mean, not performing stand-up.

[mrs.chappie]

Err .... buddy, am I reading this right ... you think you're an emu?

[dot.hawkes]

That's what made me think Glidr was American, i know they use that term for a fringe.
Was your mum arrested for holding a knife to your throat/

[tamborine]

mrs.chappie.....poor Parky....he's retired now and if Emu rears its head it will finish him off!

by wearing womens jeans Glidr admits to having a larger posterior.

[mrs.chappie]

[:o)

[mrs.chappie]

Glidr, apologies for my silliness.

"For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am."

I think you have answered your own question here. If you are happy with the situation, and the missus is okay with it, then why are you asking for other folks' opinions?

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. And no, you are not a pervert because the clothes you wear are not "traditionally male". Fill yer boots lad. There are far worse things you could be dabbling in.

[Glidr]

Verix, to answer your question, no I'm a TV. I do not like to wer make up or wear womens clothes except for jeans and thongs and even then the jeans and thongs don't " look " like a woman's clothing. I just like the fit and look of some of the style of jeans and the thongs make me feel a little more feminine and good about myself.

I always thought a Transvestite wore all sorts of women's clothing and make up.

[Glidr]

I meant to say, no I'm not a TV, damn I'm digging a hole for myself =(