Animals & Nature1 min ago
Guy problem
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There is this guy where I work who I fancy, but he is going out with a girl who works here too. She is a year older then him, and was going on to me not long ago saying how she has 'tried' dumping him as she does not want a serious relationship, but obviously she didn't make the message very clear as they are still together. She has also cheated on him with many people!! But he does not know and I feel so sorry for him being kept in the dark. He is such a nice guy and I don't want to jump into anything serious but would like to go out with him for a drink or something just to get to know him better. He has no idea how I feel and I don't know what to do, as I don't know how he feels about me either. Is it best to just leave it as he still has a girlfriend?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.If you want to go out for a drink with him to get to know him better, do it. It doesnt have to be a romantic evening out or anything, suggest it as a spur of the moment thing one evening as you are leaving work, and just have one or two. Then you can see what he's like outside of work, and possible develop it into a regular thing. Friday lunchtimes are good for this too. You'll also get a better idea how he feels about his lass.