I am being Pressured

[alan.barnes]

My wife keeps trying to make me try anal sex rather than normal sex because one of her friends says it is enjoyable but i really dont want to do it.  I am affraid she may leave me or cheat as she is so set on it. what would you advise me to do?

[becks]

If she is your wife you should be able to say no without fear of her cheating - if she continues to pressure you, ask her how she would feel if you pressured her into doing something she wasn't comfortable with. You shouldn't feel pressured into doing anything, least of all by your wife. And why is she so keen anyway?? Ouch!

[alan.barnes]

have you done it becks?

[georgit79]

becks, you don't have to answer that- it's a private matter. Goes to show you're at least curious, though, alan?!

[Miss Zippy]

If you truly think your wife is likely to cheat on you because of something like that, then, purely from an outsider's viewpoint, it sounds like there are some deeper problems here and your relationship is in need of some serious attention. If that's not the case, then I apologise. Hopefully this won't come across as smutty or anything, but there are lots of 'adult toys' you could buy together that you can use to please your wife in that way if you don't actually want to go there yourself.  But, of course, you need to feel comfortable using them. As with anything, if you are pressured into doing something you don't want to do, it can only lead to trouble.  

[alan.barnes]

its such a horrible thought. i dont think i could maintain an erection for long enough to actually go through with it knowing where my manhood was going to go.

[Miss Zippy]

Methinks you're a wind up merchant Mr Barnes! Just seen your other post in the Parenting section.

[alan.barnes]

I have just come accross this site and I have a few questions i need advice on. isnt that what this site is for?

[bluedolphin]

Perhaps if u were to say to her that ur aforementioned "manhood" would make her bum look big......it might put her off the idea !!!!!!!

 

btw I think u ARE a wind up artist!!!!!

[Miss Zippy]

Yes it is, but your posts strike me as being a little on the salacious side but my suspicion would not have been aroused had you not asked becks such a personal question. Seems to me you are seeking cheap thrills, but I'm a cynical soul. Good luck if you are genuine. 

[alan.barnes]

i asked for your opinions and she said Ouch, surely that is giving me an answer that she has experinced pain in her back passage.

[cardboard]

Give it a try mate, and let us know how you get on. It could open a whole new world for you (and the other half of the population)

[alan.barnes]

it makes me feel sick, i am not trying it. if she doesnt love me for who i am then she can leave me

[spamflag]

Perhaps you could ease yourself into the idea by pleasuring yourself into a tub of Nutella/Marmite....just to get used to the colour and consistency.

[spamflag]

PS: try throwing in some sweetcorn for added realism.

[alan.barnes]

i have asked a serious question that is bothering me and effecting my marrage and all you lot can do is take the mick! thanks a lot

[Moog]

What exactly are your objections alan.barnes?  And [more worrying] are you my former history teacher!?

[becks]

I am afraid you are a wind-up merchant mr barnes, whether i have tried it is my own personal business but put it this way, my philosophy has always been that stuff is supposed to come out of bums, rather than go up it.

[georgit79]

LOL becks

[ICEMANSAV]

Least after it your son won't sniff your wife's keks again!